Privacy Not Secrecy

In today's world ,we don't mostly prefer keeping our relationship private. We don't want to show it to the world what's going on between partners. And it's right also because you are in a relationship with each other not with the whole world. That is why world doesn't need to know what's going on between you both. People genuinely don't care if you are together or you are fighting or not happy with each other. All world needs is drama and gossips. They will mock about you and then forget. Nobody cares if your relationship is going on smoothly. Most of the people who know about your relationship will be happy if it ends soon.

It's also said that relationships last longer when they are kept private. But there's a difference between secrecy and privacy. Keeping your relationship private and keeping your partner secret are two different things. Under the name privacy we tend to keep our partners secret and this many gives opportunity to many of us to keep multiple partners at a time. And they don't even come to know about it as all we keep it "PRIVATE". Keeping you relationship private means not to tell people what's going on between you both and keeping it a secret means not to tell the world whether you are together or not or who's the one you are dating. Being in a relationship means committing to your partner to be with him but when you keep it a secret ,the commitmentgets lost somewhere. Stop showing off what's going on,stop telling people if it's not going on right, stop telling if you had a fight ,the world needs to know nothing. Stop seeking for relationship advices ,people know what you tell them,they give advices on the basis of those things only. But it's you who knows everything from the beginning till the end , take decisions on the basis of everything you felt from the beginning. But keeping secrets in a relationship is not justified and isn't right at any cost.

Privacy is really important nowadays as if we don't keep in private , obviously people will interrupt more and your relationship won't be stable. All they do is to give advice and leave but it's you who has to work it out ,it's you who has to keep the relationship going. Don't just brag about your relationship,it will only work for the worse .