Life- Live Yours, Not Others'

The world is full of diversity. Everyone of us is different from each other in one way or the other. Even though all lions appear similar to us but they are different. Same is the case with every species of plants and animals. All humans are also different from one another. Some are tall, others are short.Some are slim, others are fat. As our bodies are different so is our lives. No two persons lead an identical life in the world. Everyone has a different life full of ups and downs.

Unique lives but similar problems-

All of us are fortunate enough to be born on this beautiful Earth. If we are the ones, who have been given a chance to live a human life, why do we always admire other's lives? Why do we constantly think of living the life that someone else is living? Why do we always trouble ourselves by thinking about the downs we are facing in our lives?

The lifestyle all of us have created-

None of us have answers for these questions. The reason responsible for all this haunting and pressure we create about our lives by admiring others is not exogenous, it is self induced. All of us have developed a lifestyle in which we spend a part of our daywatching others, their lifestyles. We always envy from the people who are enjoying their lives while we are working. There is a constant thought in our mind that such people are lucky or fortunate enough that they are living their lives while we are toiling day and night. Sometimes, people start thinking so much about their lives that they even develop some problem for themselves, such as headaches, stress and depression.

What to do to lead a happy life?

In order to lead a happy life, one must think high of themselves. Observing others or admiring others is a natural instinct that can't be stopped. What can be stopped is we comparing our lives with that of others, as this is self induced. Everyone has their unique life. If we are struggling in our life, this doesn't mean that we are unlucky. This means that we have such power in ourselves to lead such life. No one in the world is lucky or unlucky, everyone writes his luck himself. The better and more one works for himself, the sooner he will succeed. His success is always seen as his luck by those who have never worked for themselves thinking that they are unlucky. Our capabilities is not determined by anything in the world. Our efforts define our capabilities 😄.

The pain you all suffer never goes in vain, it is just accruing towards your prospective gains!