4 Things That Should Not Control You

Many people spend their life, at the mercy of circumstances. Living at the mercy of what happens to them. Living at the mercy of other people. Not living in present because they are stuck in the prison of their past.

If you want to live a great life, don’t allow yourself to be controlled by any of these things:

• Your past

• Other people’s opinions and judgments

• Limited beliefs you project on life; and

• Money

1. Past

Don’t allow your past to control your present or your future life. Whatever happened you must let it go. Leave the pain of your past behind so it cannot ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind so it cannot block the light of your bright future. Your past is gone. Whatever happened, whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case, reliving the events will never do you any good. If someone did you wrong, the only way you can win, is if you let go and move on. If you live in hate, they win. If you live in the victim story, they win. If you want to win, you must focus on building your future and start right now. Release that weight from your back so you can be free. Don’t allow events of the past which are now gone to ruin this moment which is perfect, this moment which is now to enjoy, which is ready for you to live fully.

2. Don’t allow other people’s opinions and judgments to control the direction of your life

The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don’t want to travel. People pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs. Before you do anything, ask yourself. Am I doing this because I want to do it, or because of my fear of judgments from others if I don’t. You were born unique for a reason. You were born to stand out, to be appreciated and loved for WHO YOU ARE. Don’t dim your lights so you fit into dull backgrounds of other people’s life. Shine bright as you are. Those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you.

3. Don’t allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs

These beliefs maybe conscious but more than likely they’re unconscious. They maybe unconscious limitations that have been conditioned in you from a young age an throughout your entire life by listening to those around you who never reached for their own dreams. Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up. There’s nothing you can not do, nothing you can not have and no one you can not become if you believe in yourself. If you believe anything is possible, guess what, ANYTHING is POSSIBLE! When you change your belief from limited to unlimited, your potential is unlimited. Imagine what you could achieve if you lived your life as though anything is possible, as though miracles are standard requirements of everyday. As the saying goes “ When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm“ when you have nothing inside holding you back, there’s nothing outside that can hold you back either. Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset. The instant you decide to see everything as a gift. When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse, the very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything is as it should be.

4. Money

This is what controls the majority of humans on the planet. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t want abundance. It doesn’t mean money is evil. You know as well as I do what great things you can do and how many people you can help with money. What this means is, do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved, you’ve just made the wrong decision. What you will find, is that when you follow your heart, and you lead with your intentions to serve others, to give your best to others – EVERY SINGLE TIME, when you follow your intuition and truly give your soul, then the money will come and it will come in far greater amounts than simply if you chase money for the sake of chasing money.

So challenge yourself to live the life you want to live free from being controlled by ANYTHING. Find your freedom. Live fully!