Pride V/S Ego

Living organisms specially, Humans have deep set of characteristics thatmakeit a complex organism in this entire biosphere. Such a combination with skilled brain, kind heart both works complementary. People are varied according to their appearance, behavior, qualities, abilities, disabilities, nature as well as views. Humans work hard in around their life to make it productive and happier in the ending days. Naturally, sense of liking and love comes along to choose the interest of work and proceed further. A person with full dedication and love can achieve heights. Working hard and gaining coins is based on Newtons's Third Law. Therefore, a person who has a talent, an intention to work honestly and putting all senses to its actions can achieve fame what is desired.

We Humans are habituated to habits. A person with lots of fame, good notations, high ranks, full sorted career, great money assets and when everything in life goes smooth, it not only boosts up the person but also makes it a habit. A habit to never lose. Habit to rank highest of the highest in the order. Thus, its good as well as bad. We all sense it and go through this kind of feelings every day. Isn't it? "I am the best and will never lose an inch." Isn't that all we think in our skilled and most lovable topics, when are we going to get competed with another good one! Yes, we do. It's our nature our units of formation. We cannot erase them, but we can change its orientation and distribution. We can sense when and where to use and not to. Pride is what we call that. That's absolutely good because it gives us confidence and power to fight but, it does reflects a bad vibration. Ego. Naturally when we are habituated to win, and we think yourself to be the best, a crackling moment comes that tosses us up when we get claps a bit lower than the other one. Ego arises and a sense of competition, game as well as hatred comes. That's good to enhance our faults, improve to a higher rank and making ourselves a better lustrous one, but at times it can make things go worst. Ego between family, husband-wife can break such bonds and lead to a great loss. Therefore, sensibility for correct place and usage is a great art and talent one must acquire in life. Ego between spouse doesn't fit and can make relationships bitterer than making it.

A scar is always the scratch, and it remains. Ego is such dangerous that it intends our lips speak out cruel, and annoying words that we never expect to utter to them, whom we love the most. The one whom we love, should not be pulled on the way of ego, and we must keep it aside for professional life and one's own development, not in personal life. The acceptance of our fault,opponentto be much better in the work and saying it with guts is also a matter to learn. This can create a balance in your professional as well as personal life. Nature will also show itsmagic, butwe can control those which are in control of our thoughts and actions. We must put effort to build up sweet bondwith thespousenot to mixpoisonousactions andbehavior. Ego should be used in a manner of one's improvement and for knowing oneself not in a destructive attitude. Pride is good but thatto alimit because extra pride can give us extra burden and ego can take birth. Things like this must be controlled and balancedat leastfor them whom we love with our heart and should know its correct dose.

Neither pride nor ego wins the game until we control them and win. Sense of maturity is what you need to build your sweet empire.