Children in India are stressed and they’re not coping well with this excess amount of stress.You must’ve heard of the term “self-harm” in which a person deliberately hurts him/herself physically to cope with problems that they’re facing.A report by Times Of India said that“While parents often dismiss self-injuring as an attention-seeking device, or a passing phase, mental health practitioners counter that girls routinely cut themselves high up on their thighs where no one can see the injuries, which would suggest the opposite.” (Source:TOI)
There is lack of awareness amongst children and it becomes difficult for them to handle situations where they themselves begin to self-harm or they get to know that their friends are causing self injury.
The report had the following information as well:
“It’s hard for parents to understand why anyone would want to intentionally hurt one’s self or why that injury would come as a relief,” says Mumbai psychiatrist Zirak Marker. “Some young people report it serves as a distraction from some other intense emotional pain. Others self-harm because they feel numb from inside.” Research suggests that the continuum of causes for self-harm ranges from depression and anxiety to borderline personality disorders.”
(Source:TOI)
I’ve composed a small poem for everyone who has previously suffered from this problem of self-harming ,those who currently self-harm and those who know anyone who harms themselves. It’s just a way of saying that “I’m here for you “
A cut here a cut there
Not a single patch of clear skin they’re everywhere
The world is shut
You feel the sorrows leaving you with each cut
Bloody wrists have become a common affair
Don’t roll up your sleeves or else they’ll stare
There’s something that I’ve been meaning to say to you
And I believe it’s time I do
For every cut , every wound will heal it’s just a matter of time
It’s a battle you’ll have to fight
Stay strong don’t run and hide
My dear you’re a fighter
On the darkest of days I’ll be your pole star