Being On Either Side Of The Pole

How often we speak highly when it comes to another but lowly when it comes to one. We might say that because we see others value and importance but forget our own when we are stressed or worried. Being optimistic about oneself and events related to oneself is very difficult but how is it so easy when others are a concern? This has been a constant battle within the minds of one but hardly able to express them. We are also attracted to people who throw optimistic energy but once you get to know them personally you start to see how pessimistic they can be about themselves. As surprising this might sound everyone is more or less the same in this debate. Being on Either side of the pole can be destructive, yes you heard it right being too optimistic is known as optimistic bias and too much of it is not healthy for one and of course, being too pessimistic is also harmful as it allows the devil to invade the mind really quickly. One should be somewhere in the middle of it so that he or she can balance it. Seeing others inner beauty is very easy but our heart is so not ready to accept our own inner beauty. Maybe it is the influence of society or maybe it is just how you see yourself but one day, you’ll be able to see your inner beauty and will be able to love yourself as much as you love others around you. You’ll try to be less pessimistic and more optimistic about you, this is what one should strive for daily because till you are unable to do this you won’t be able to think positively about yourself.

She used to think a lot of the way she walked or the way she talked but as she opened the doors of self love she walked into a world of happiness that functioned from her perspective not others. Now people ask her show she did it she smiles and tells them I was not on either side of the pole.