To have love, to have a person to love, to talk to everyday. To have a normal day with no firsts and nothing new to share, with the same person.
Sounds foreign, sounds scary. People get bored of each other, people get tired, people stop appreciating and really seeing the other person. Maybe it’s because they think they will have tomorrow to do that or maybe because they don’t want another tomorrow. We want consistency, consistency of non-consistency, constant high’s and low’s but that’s just ridiculous to think. why would one want that? Maybe it’s because we want a constant high but that is unrealistic, not how people are, how relationships are.
I think what we really want is not consistency of inconsistency but to feel safe with the consistency of a constant. Finding comfort, feeling safe in having the same person to love tomorrow.
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