Is It Over? Did Our "Forever" End So Soon?

Heartbreak is the worst feeling anyone can experience because it brings along with it, a range of pain, depression, anxiety, inferiority and fear. Love is full of dreams and you will be floating in it till you realise the truth. Just before you land on reality, People leave you, keeping you longing for them. They are done with you.

Have you ever wondered Why it was so easy for them to leave, while you struggle with it, even years later? Why you were easy to forget? It's because you didn't understand that the term forever serves different meanings. You just held to the promises made. You hoped for their return.

Hearts are broken by people who reside in it.

Then you are filled with confusion. You start questioning yourself to know why they left. Was it your height, weight, your anger or your mood swings? At this time, your inferiority complex sneaks in and pulls you down into the well of depression. You become so soaked in your tears and deny to come out of it.

That's what you get when you are taken prisoner in a cold heart.

Your heart remains as the ruined territory, only because you allowed the invaders in. You will find despair in all the things you admired once. His favourite song terrifies you. The drizzle is not romantic anymore. Your favourite sitcom becomes too unbearable to watch without his presence. You don't crave for snacks at midnight. Instead, you crave for him. Your ponytail aches for one last pull from him. But there's no way to relive it. You have to accept and move on. You have to forget and forgive. That may sound impossible but what else can you do? You don't have an option. Moving on is the best gift, you can offer yourself.

Sometimes we don't realise that Life is not a bed of roses and that 'Heartbreak is one among the thorns of life'. You fell for him but that doesn't mean you will never pick yourself up. Choose to leave. Choose to let go. Choose self-respect over anything. Give up on people who didn't deserve you. Get rid of anything that spoils your inner peace. People will eventually lose interest in you and that's okay. Now You have to find a new set of audience- a better audience. Grieving about the old ones gets you nowhere.

Appreciate the people who don't need a reason to stick around you.