Breaking Stereotypes

Whatʼs up with the cliched orders? We often try to restrict be it a man or woman to just one domain. As Simone De Beauvoir has said it one is not born but one becomes a woman. The same case is that we as a society have thrusted at each individual what they have to do and how they have to be and what way should they think. Here in this world the word freedom is only a mere abstract thing as we can never reach to it. Who are we to set guidelines and create a barrier between a man and woman? We never know who excels in what field. We should not create such a division that a person may forget the basic necessity of being humane. We have so much examples to put here like we tagline a girl approaching a guy as a desperate one and says a guy is a flirt if he just talks simply to a girl. We have even heard how some say that tea makes oneʼs skin dark so a girl most probably should stop drinking much of it in order to get a bridegroom. But who are we to create binary oppositions? Who are we to decide between what is beautiful and what is ugly? We have come over to it at a certain level as we see now epithets like “BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL” but still we have to reach a far away place. We can even talk about love marriages too. Love is just not a word it is an emotion. We see how people nowadays take love marriage as if it is a taboo. People who indulge into it are afraid to say that they have done

it, it is as they have theft and robbed everyoneʼs possessions. Likewise we donʼt like anybody indulging in our affairs same is the case with other humans. We as humans need to live and have the responsibility to let others live too.