Careless Girls

Society is an important place and it plays and even moreimportant rolein our lives . Thats the place which makes our survival easier but what would happen if the society itself snatches away ourliberty and forced us to besomeone we aren't.This is about that, about all the girls who are careless,who forget after keeping their stuff and who are judged without any reason. So people have this tendency in our society ( I don't know why) that girls should be organised. They should keep their things in place and being messy isn't just allowed. Boys can be careless,they can do this, it's quite normal. So many times,I have heard this things from elders that boys are careless,they generally are but why you? What does it mean by why you! Can't I be careless, who made these rules? And not only males ,but females in our society also teach us the same thing, we are judged from the same individuals we are going to become.

If we forget after keeping our stuff or we don't place it at right place,people will point out as if we have done something really wrong. It's human nature,we can't remember things everytime, then why rules are different. If a boy is careless,it's normal but if a girl is careless,she hasn't been raised well. Judging people for showing human nature is right, who raised you? Upbringing shows in the behaviour ,how we talk or what we talk about in the society not by the loudness of our voices and not by our skills in household jobs. People always want you to behave like a woman. But how does a woman behave,not like a human? Can't she be like a normal human being, why we require her to be perfect all the time. Why is it important for me to be an ideal girl around me all the time. A girl should not talk loudly,her voice needs to be low and peaceful but boys are loud ,they are. They need to know how to manage households . They should know how to cook,how to clean and everything.

This is not what we all were raised for. We don't want to be conscious all the time,nobody wants that. A woman has given you birth ,you must atleast give her the liberty to be herself. You must remember carrying you for 9 months before you even set foot on the ground must be grounds enough for a lot of respect and admiration.