Moving On

To leave behind the things that once meant the most to you. To accept the fact they aren't yours anymore. To live your life without something that has been a part of you for so long. Moving on, the two words that seem quite impossible when you go through the hardest of times. Even when you so badly want to move on, but you still can't. You try hard to stop yourself from thinking about what once was, but then you end up thinking about it the most.

It isn't easy, it never was. No one will understand, no one ever did. The only person that'll help you is only you and no one.

So here are a few things that can help you move on:

1. Keep yourself occupied

Often when you sit idle or you sit alone, you find yourself stuck in thoughts about things that you don't want to think about. So Indulge yourself in something or the other. Always keep your mind occupied with some work.

2. Don't let your heart stay heavy

Don't try too hard to stop yourself from thinking about the things that you want to move on from. Don't stress yourself. Talk about it or cry about it. Don't frustrate yourself with anything. Don't keep it in your heart for too long. Just let it go out of your heart.

3. Spend time with your loved ones

The people you love are the key to your happiness. You don't necessarily have to talk about your situation with them, but just spending time with them can help you keep your mind free from any negative thought. You mostly think about your past when you're alone. So spend your free time with your friends and family.

4. Go out and help people

One of the things that makes a man happy is when someone is happy because of him. Almost everyone out there is suffering, and many of them don't have people to talk to about their problems. You don't always need money to help someone, sometimes only your smile can do that.

5. Develop new hobbies

When you go out and look around, you'll find a lot of things that you can learn about. Explore the world around you. You'll find so many things that you never knew about. This will help you learn a lot and will also help you in the process of moving on.