How To Tell Someone You Love Them?


So, finally the wait is over and you have realised that you have fallen for someone who is so special in your life and mean the world to you.

But owning up your feelings is a challenging task. These three words "I love you" seems easier to utter but when the moment comes they can become the most strenuous ones. But before confessing this you should be aware about some of the crucial things which can change things. So here, are the some things you should always take care of.

1. Are you sure about your love for that person?

Firstly, you need to be certain that you are in love with that person and it's not just a infatuation. Because people often call their attraction or infatuation as "Love". And when the time passes they get stultify or they want to get rid out of everything because they just rushed into it without even thinking twice which results into hurting your partner. Before proposing someone you should be sure about your love for that person.

"Love" is the feeling which is so alluring. This sentiment has the power to change everything in your life. Love is something when you enjoy being around someone. You feel yourself with that person and you are the most comfortable with them. You don't need to be someone else to be loved. You don't search for anyone else because you just enjoy their presence. You start liking even the stupidest thing of that person and you accept them with all their vices. You feel amazing by just watching them smile and always try to make them happy.

And if you feel in the same way then yes you are in love.

2. Is that person the right one for you?

You should know before taking a step forward that the person you like is the right one for you and fits in your life. When you are with the right person you feel secure with them. They never make you feel uncomfortable and you can totally rely on them. You can share everything of your life and that person listens to you. Being with that person you can be yourself and doesn't need to change. If that person accepts you the way you are and never complains or asks you to change.


  • Now, this is the time to express your feelings. But always remember when you express your feeling and you don't have any idea if that person feels the same or not then you should always manifest your feelings when you both are in private and you have no people around. Because demonstrating in public whether it may be your friends or anybody else can make them uncomfortable and the person may not react in the way they want to.
  • You can go to any place which your partner likes or a place where you both have so many sweet memories. But choose a place which is peaceful and there is no noise so that you both can spend time and you can convey everything.
  • When you express your love just look into their eyes and speak your heart out. You can hold their hands and enunciate anything which you feel by just looking at them. This can be the best way to show your love for someone.
  • Give them time to think over it as much as they want. Don't rush and let them think about it. Because may be that person has not expected this and he/she is not ready. They will be needing some time to accept it and think over it.
  • ‌And lastly, let them react in the way they want to because they have right to speak what they are feeling at that point of time. And while expressing you should always be prepared for any outcome. They can accept or reject your proposal and you should always accept their choices too.
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Pranav Sokiya  •  1w
Hey ! This post was great. It beautifully describes how to propose someone you truly love. I have read your other articles on feminism and solo travelling as well. I like your ideas and attitude towards life.

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Pranav Sokiya  •  1w
Hey ! This post was great. It beautifully describes how to propose someone you truly love. I have read your other articles on feminism and solo travelling as well. I like your ideas and attitude towards life.