Secret of a Successful Relationship

Relationship
Bollywood love stories always wake up the sleeping Romeo and Juliet within us. Moreover many true lovers like Heer Ranjha, Saleem Anarkali have set an example for us.

So is there any secret for maintaining a relationship forever?

A relationship is a thin string beaded with belief, passion, friendship, and love. We should handle it with care without hurting our partner. Many of us at the beginning of a relationship act like a person we are not, simply to impress the partner substituting the real life with reel life. We end our relationship at a very early stage because our partner must have had accepted the person that we chose to show them rather than introducing our real self. So the root of our relationship is weakened and we need to correct it.

Breakup

People now prefer to break their relationship rather than developing and maintaining it. Break up is just an excuse to run away from the person whom you have chosen once for a life. It is running away from the dreams that you have built with your partner. Breaking up with your partner will only leave you, an incomplete person searching out for an opportunity to patch up with your true love. In our bad phase of the relationship, we always ignore those great elements that make us feel special and continue judging those elements that affect our bond.

Would you love to know some of the secrets of a successful relationship?

1. Be the person that you are in real life rather than putting up the fake personality that is not yours.

2. Maintain transparency in your relationship.
3. Don't let your relationship dominate you so much that you completely change yourself and stop living the life you used to.

4. Always maintain a healthy balance among your friends, family, and partner. Give equal time to all of them.

5. Respect your partner’s choice as you are one of it.
6. Keep motivating your partner to achieve their dreams, goals, and at the same time make them feel special.

7. Give surprise gifts. not necessarily they should be costly but should be something that brings a sparkling smile on your partner's face.

8. Be loyal to your partner and if you cannot then one should avoid being in a relationship.
9. Over-possessiveness, over love, over restrictions, over concern, everything that exceeds the boundaries of a relationship only destroys it.

10. Release your partner to speak, to hang out with their friends, to enjoy their own time and they will value you more.

11. Fights should not bitter your relationship with your companion; it indeed should make your bond stronger. Avoid fights in the public as it is a degrading thing for your relationship.

12. One must give time to their partner.
13. Trust is the pillar of any relationship; if you do not trust your partner you are destroying your bond. So avoid doubting and clarify your thoughts.

14. Expressing your love towards your partner no matter how old your relationship is, will still keep your love life happening.

15. Never allow any third person to enter into your relationship.
16. Avoid discussing your past relationships with your partner as it will increase the insecurities.

17. Hold the moment with your partner rather than being busy on the phone.

Relationships can be more beautiful than Bollywood reel life provided we start living our life with our companion rather than sustaining it with them. Very few lucky people get a chance to experience it and if you are that lucky one always hold your partner’s hand standing beside them in every good and bad situation.

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