Everyone person on Earth has one thing in common that all of them are Human beings. Though all of us are Human beings, yet all of us are distant apart in our physical, mental and social personalities. No two persons are wholly identical to each of them , they may be physician similar (twins) but are not mentally similar. Everyone is distinct from one another in some manner. So, if all of us are not the same , how can we compare ourselves with others andhow can we adjudge that one is better from the other.

Every creature on this Earth is a creation of God. Thus, if God has already made up his mind of making every person different, how can we and who are we to compare ourselves from others? Why do we always have to listen about someone being better than us? Why do we always have to mould ourselves to become like others or to compete with others? Why does one think low of themselves when they find others of the same field doing better than him or her?

The one reason for all these problems is that all of us are aspiring people who have developed a habit of thinking highly of others and at the same time low of ourselves. Everytime you go and ask anyone of what they consider their chances of success, you will get an answer that mine is not so good as his or hers. All of us ambitious people are constantly haunting us from the efforts of others. We assoon as we start working for our goals , start comparing ourselves from others. Trying to match our efforts with the efforts of others always give us dejection and pain. Many people get early success and others in the same field, because they compare themselves,started feeling low of themselves. They have a feeling that their efforts are not upto the mark, that they are lacking somewhere, etc.

Have you ever wondered, what your best power is? Yours best power is that no one is you. None in the world can be you. This is why every successful person have their own success story because they learn from others and not compare their efforts with others. One must always have a total belief and confidence in themselves and their efforts.

The people getting early success end up confining themselves with small things. But, the people who are engrossed in their works and get success slowly always end up setting their name in the world.

Example- Mahatma Gandhi, world renowned freedom fighter , was involved in struggle for freedom of India for years but got his first success at the agr of early 70s when Satyagraha Movement succeeded in India.

Hence one must thinks high of himself and should learn from others.

Comparing gives us failures,

Learning gives us results!!!!!!!

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