Getting an opportunity is always considered as exceptional by human beings. It’s not easy to grab a perfect opportunity that matches one’s interest. These are not my thoughts instead our society thinks like that. Why are human beings not considering ‘Life’ as a golden opportunity? Even God gifted us to live on a green planet surrounded by beautiful relationships. A human being never satisfies with what they possess instead they search for a new place of happiness. It can be compared just as filling water again to a fully occupied bottle and worrying about the spilled water on the floor. So here I’m writing down some golden rules from my small vision on life. Each of us can follow these rules in our life to lead a happy life.
WE ARE THE DECISION MAKERS
Yes, we are the decision-makers of our own lives. God gifted us merrily to explore ourselves to any extent to find the true meaning of our life. So it’s our decision to act in any situation. It’s our choice to either stay inside and wail in the situation or to get out of the situation and find reasons to be happy.
< 1% EXPECTATIONS
As we are human beings, it’s natural to expect from others. Don’t anticipate your dear one’s way of expressions in different situations. It can be different from what you imagine. It’s not in our hands. Don’t break down when others do not act in the way you look forward. So keep in mind, expectations are always a burden for a happy life.
TAKE OTHER’S OPINION NOT COMMENTS
The next golden rule is mostly a significant one. We all love to be in the limelight. We all love to be loved by the society we live in and their discussions are considered to be vital too. But we should think all the opinions and comments of the society are really necessary to live our lives? No. We should take up the positive opinions that help us to shape ourselves into a better human, not the silly comments they pass while talking to you. It should be discarded and never ever take anything into the mind that hurts our emotions.
ZERO COMPARISON WITH OTHER PEOPLE
Comparisons are only suitable while doing mathematics problems not appropriate in our lives. All are equal nothing less nothing more. Yes, it’s just like parents always tell that every child is equal to them, all human beings are equal in the sight of God. Then why we are comparing other’s life with ours? So be contented on what we possess.
Live a life where you can help others not only through action but through words too. Hold others in their weak situations and encourage others with our positive thoughts so that people can spread the same positivity to others.
RESPECT & LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE
The ultimate golden rule is to “RESPECT & LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE”. Yes, it’s vital to lead a happy life. When you start accepting the real you, any obstacles in your path, you urge the power to fight against it. Because you started to believe in your self-powers and strength of your mind.
So the strings of our happiness are in our hands. Follows these simple steps and live a beautiful memorable life with your dear ones. Keep Shining!