WE, to live, perform life processes but it doesn’t mean that we turn our life into a process. Life is not just a single phase that may pass away in a little time, It’s a Symphony where everything, every moment, every person, has its own time and space. Its your wish, How you would want to lead it! Few people are scared of everything they do in their lives, every decision they make is a step made through conquering their fears. And yet there are others who do not take life seriously , Life is a matter of a game for them, they trust their instincts and lead their life. But we are normal people who have fluctuating emotions, changing mindsets and a lot of factors affecting our decision making process. Doing things for yourself , your good and your happiness , leads to a very desirable and a joyous life and doing things to please others or making others happy will only lead to and unwanted and un-precious life. we live at no one’s mercy but god’s , so why should we try and make others happy by pushing ourselves into a sadder unwanted life. People are afraid of so many things, fear of failing , fear of making mistakes fear of doing the wrong thing , fear of being caught, fear of so many unwanted things. keeping such fears will only worsen the course of your life, and anyways life is all about making mistakes to do the right thing and get to the solution. Fear is only as deep as the mind allows. If your mind perceives fear to be the only thing in situation when bravery has to play the key , then I am sorry to say but your mind has been conditioned in the wrong way. Fear of anything grow deep only to the level till which your brain allows, the more you think about something , the more you fear about it. and fear is positive only to some certain limits. Yes I said fear is positive. If you are fearful of something (to a limit) then there is a 99% chance that you rill overcome it because Curiosity will conquer fear even more than bravery will. If you are curious enough then it is likely that you conquer the fear that sits in the subconscious of your mind. All progress takes place outside the comfort zone. If you stay in that little bubble where you feel that you are the king or queen , let me tell you , you are living wrong. even the brightest of men don’t consider themselves to be on the top. when you live in your comfort zone, you tend to do things in a way which appeal to your ego and instincts and you end up making a minute progress. Step out of that little zone. Burst that bubble cause that bubble of comfort is what will lead to trouble. Progress is the key to success and success a key to happy life. Life is a once in a lifetime opportunity. You don’t get to live the wasted time and seconds again unless you are either Hermione and possess the time turner or you have the Jin of Aladin. Live life freely , make both wrong and right decisions, welcome life with open arms, play in the lap of life and take it seriously when it wants to be in that way. No body’s life is perfect. It just that the people who enjoy things they do, even if its against their will ,a re living happier. so lets rather than falling into the category of jealous jellybeans , fall into the category of the ones who smile and welcome each and every phase of life with a smile.