Who You Let In Your Life, It Matters!

Difficult times come and they disappear, however the times when it sticks around for a long time; life feels like it is too much to handle. The cloud stays for the longest hour when you need the lingering sun so much.

During these variations in life, you expect someone to be beside you and take you to a brighter place. Ever heard about family being your dying coffin, not exactly; but in the cemetery when you are laid breathless, the final goodbye is with them.

Yes, our friends are with us, for us to tell them those stories and things that we are not able to share with our family. They just there to listen and advise you, they won’t forever stay beside you to get up from your fall and help you learn to stand on your feet. Family is the one who does that.

While some family doesn’t do all the sticking around without taunts and full smiles; isn’t it just better to get through the taunts and feel the warmth of their love and care. It is much better than someone who is there for a short time; the decades of care and togetherness with your family shouldn’t be left for anything.

The struggles and sacrifices made by your parents and the patience your siblings had with all the tension at home, only because you couldn’t handle more than what you had with you. All of these are the feelings that you wouldn’t get elsewhere.

However, depending on what your situations are, at times friends might help you get away from the pressures you have in your family. All the more, there are sayings people usually say, “How you choose your friend is what decides who you are and how far you will go.”

When desperation is over the head with reasons of not getting employed or lovers breaking up, a friend can change the way you have been brought up as. With unemployment and embarrassment amongst friends and relatives, that one friend who listens can alter your failure into either worst nightmares or the best lesson of your life.

Comparing yourself with families of riches when you have grown in a poor family, and expecting your family to support you with thousands of money for business isn’t what you should do. There are a lot of examples in the world of how a poor student became a rich businessman, yes! Thorns are there in roses but the beautiful petals can erase the curves and it is what shows how hard you have worked for the place you have reached.

In all those thorny times, the one you let in as a partner is what matters. Family is always there for you with opened doors, no matter you leave to come back or never return; watching you grow is what they desire the most. So, decide carefully who you allow to enter your inner peace and growth.