8 Red Flags That Point To A Toxic Relationship

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Shweta Dubey
Mar 16, 2019   •  143 views

8 Red Flags That Point to a Toxic Relationship

Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Did you walk out having faith on your instincts or are you stuck inside it? people are not even aware of how a healthy relationship loses its charm and changes into a toxic relationship. Thereafter, if you want to save your time and yourself from heartbreak, panic attack, dull, and servile relationship then refer to this 8 Red Flags. Who knows? You could relate yourself to any of these points.

1)Abridgment of Effort

Every relationship requires an effort to grow. Communication plays a prime role in this effort. If there is a lack of communication, the gap widens and it becomes difficult to fill it. Next, if those daily Good Morning and Good Night texts suddenly start to lose its charm and fade away, then be aware! This is a big Red Flag.

2)The Blame Game

If your partner Corners their own mistake and blames you for everything that has gone wrong with them then, you need to speak for yourself and get out of this nutshell. A flourishing relationship never rests on any excuse. So, rather than taking on the blame, think about your toxic relationship.

3)If you feel like you are dead tired

Do you think twice about your partner before taking any step? And that too with fear. A healthy relationship brings in a smile on one's face. However, if you feel drained while talking to your partner and it exhausts you physically and mentally then it's a Red Flag for you.

4)You Start to Refrain
Do you find reasons to avoid talking to your partner? Do you like your work more than spending time with them?

Avoiding your partner and making stories to refrain them indicated that you are not cheerful from the heart and this is the Red Flag indicating a toxic relationship.

5)When you are being disparaged

Taunting you some time is not wrong but, criticizing every time for your mistake could lead to an unhealthy relationship. Your partner should help you in overcoming the difficulties of life rather than, pointing out your faults. If they motivate you to attain your goal then your relationship is in a good condition otherwise RED FLAG!

6)Pilot Your Life
No one wants to be controlled. Nevertheless, in the initial stages, people tend to listen more to their partner to evolve themselves. Don't hurry, know their darker side too. And, if you are not trusted by your partners to take your own decisions then here's another Red Flag for you.

7)Keep under Thumb

A relationship works with equal participation of both the members. It is not the case that one is superior over another otherwise the relationship is not balanced. If your partner brings a month-old topic back and makes you feel inferior then it's a warning sign for you to move on.

8)Alteration

Innovating something new in you for your betterment and future is good but if they start taking this as a task to change you for themselves then, it's a humongous Red Flag indicating a toxic relationship. If your partner doesn't accept you for who you are then, don't waste your time to remodel yourself.

Be the person who you are. Try to be with the person who will increase your buzz and make you laugh loud with a full heart. In addition to this, stay away from Toxic relationship.

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Great!
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Thank you saloni
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Veritably written !