Being unwanted and lonely is a curse that one can have in his or her life. In my school days, I used to have a school friend of mine who tried to socialize with people because of the previous image she had made in people's mind of being a typical nerd. So today I'm going to share some pages of her diary which narrates her thoughts about days she spent in loneliness .
"The day I was enlighted about the discrimination in genders, I foundmyself more as like a girl than a human being. I am not stating that I am unhappy being born as a woman, but I am saying ofmy true identity. That is the identity of a human being.
Today we are going to talk over this case. That how the girl child was unwanted and how the girl child is unwanted till now.
The day people made me feel like a girl I understood that this discrimination never going to leave my back.
There are many friends of mine who were unwanted before and so are now.
From the very past days there is a big chaos of female foeticide in India .
People from the Zamindar family, as well as, the family of a farmer wanted a son just to have a secure life under a patriarchal figure.
The girl child was a burden for her family as she had to married by giving a huge amount of dowry but on the other hand, a boy would get married by receiving a large amount from his in-laws. So I think people thought that having a son was more profitable than having a daughter.
Still, there is a lot more educated and uneducated family families who still consider a girl as a curse on the family.
Many times people have accused the mother of giving birth to female body in spite of a son. Many times the family members have beaten her. But they don't understand that this thing is neither in her hand nor in his husband's. But these all are dependent upon the biological sciences. Till now the devilish act of aborting a female zygote takes placefrequently.
A mother gives birth to you.
A wife takes care of your home.
A sister supports you in your troubles.
If they all can have an identity in your life despite of being a burden, then why a girl child can't have a little place in your home as well in your heart.
These all are thought provoking issues and people should look into it.
I don't understand that in spite of having a very well written Constitution with a whole lot of good thoughts why men have made themselves so fussy over this case.
There are many laws which can be applied to prevent unwanted thought for a girl or a killing of a girl child.
The gender declaration before birth is highly restricted in every hospital. But still, they are not obeying the rules and destroying the zygote before it could get the figure of a human.
Just to prevent this kind of stuff we should take this into consideration.
The present female and male ratio of our country is 960:1000 which is an alarming rate of depletion and is seriously seriously dipping day by day.
My view, is just to let you know about the fact that not only to balance ratio but let her come to your world to make it more beautiful for you.
Please let her survive in peace. Please let her fly and let her make you feel like a human being."