Let It Go

Not all relationships are like David beckham and victoria or Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds, some are unsuccessful ones too. People have this mindset that there is a person out there for them who will match them in every sphere of life and some what may, this person won't leave them. This one person becommes your entire world with the passage of time, your whole life just revolves around them. Your darkest secrets are releaved in no time. Everything seems just so real. We get to know the hidden layers of oursleves, the relationship is not only about love but weird table manners, laughing your lungs out at lame jokes, sharing a telepathic link, changing your preferences as per the other person and what not. You start loving your weirdness, awkwardness, your talent, weakness, sense of humour, starnge habits, your voice, and you see everything that you had holded back for so long.

But, a time come when the sheet of white lies start invading, all the butterflies in the stomach start dying, the air in the sky stops smelling any special, the touch doesn't make your heart skip a beat and you know the spark now has come to an end.

Holding on even when you do feel like it is the worst decision ever. We let the way things are because many time we fear losing a companion. We fear to tell the world that we are the insensitive ones who broke an innocent heart and so.

We hold on despite the many red flags we see coming.

You need to know that people will eventually leave you, break you, put you at the last in their priority list, become selfish at times, stop putting you first at times, be bitter at times, move on real quick and will do whatever makes them happy.

The purpose of people coming in your life is to shatter you, break you into so many pieces that eventually it will let a different ray of light enter and convert you into a better version of you. Stop holding on to people that make you feel bad about yourself. stop holding on to people who are toxic to your life. You should learn to let go. Trust your instincts. You are stronger than you think.