Hey there!If you've come this far then let me begin this reality by a quote,
Most of the people talk too much, the reason why they never grow.
Let me clear you that, if a person is expressing his/her views in auditorium for an actual conference or meeting such asSadhguru, Tedx Speakers, Marketing or Buisness talks, etc.Those are really valuable talks which does not consider as "talkative" ones, those seminars are meant to be organised properly.
Again, I'm not including any religious or political talks, but a talk or a seminar which provides a valuable content towards the society.Now, those talks are not such "talks" where you cannot grow with.You'll grow infinitely there.Then what I'm directing this article to?
Read on to know more...
You often have had conversation with a weirdo.Yes, the person who talks unnecessarily, most of the times.And whenever a presence of silence came into existence, they get so frustrated that they again start uttering “blah blah blah”.Typically in Indian families, whenever relatives comes to our home, they usually have a silence of 20- 30 seconds during casual conversations, which seems really odd.Isn’t it?
Most of us keep on searching the topic to start conversation with, as we were never been taught to stay silent.And to stay silent, we always navigate that into meditation and such stuffs.Nope, this is not the case here..
Just prepare yourself with stopwatch and set timer to 2 minutes.Stay silent for 2 minutes right after reading this.Time starts now…I believe you’ve performed that activity.If did this so, then mainly most of the people would be distracted or not comfortable or thinking stuffs like“What’s the point of this?” And such utterings …Let me come to the actual essence of it!
If you are talking, then you are sharing the experience but if you are listening then you are learning other’s experience.
See, I’m not restricting anything for talking or not, just make sure your each word makes sense.Is this all right?Because if you’ve “gossiping” attitude then you are not learning and mainly you are discussing problems or people.Learning comes from listening and speaking valuable words.A balance must be there…This is the actual problem why we never grow, consistently.
·Avoid discussing problems and people, instead discuss ideas.
·Reduce your utterings by 50% from tomorrow.
·Try spending time alone like at terrace, park or garden, or it can be a casual walk.
See, if you atleast start this habit out, then you’ll realize you are growing immensely after 1 to 2 months.It requires a little bit practice and moreover daily reminder for those 3 things.From today, set a reminder in your phone at your wake up time so that when you check your phone, it’ll remind you those 3 things.If you find this article valuable then you’ve grown a lot my friend.
I’m not targeting your flaw to disrespect you, instead I want to reach out people as much as I can so that I can share my experience and mistakes as a learning lesson towards the entire universe via wisdom.
Keep Spreading Wisdom!
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