4 Things That Make You Look Weak

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Sparsh Mathur
Mar 24, 2019   •  35 views

STOP RIGHT THERE!

TURN AROUND AND SEE EVERYONE IS LAUGHING ON YOU!

Look at the society you do not have to follow them but to improve them.

So stop being nice to everyone. Being nice is an admirable quality in any person.
A kind, nice person who does not have boundaries to shelter behind is going to find themselves worse off.

That is not to suggest that you should stop being nice if you are, or that you shouldn’t be nice in the first place, just that you have to know when to close the door on a negative situation that may harm you.

Kindness hurts a person in the most drastic way so should be aware of when to become kind and when to not here are the four things that make you look weak:

1. YES FOR EVERYTHING AT ANYTIME.
Hello, can you do something for me?
Hey, I'm busy can you do my work?
Actually that's an invitation for you, helping people is not a bad thing but being too nice can make you feel senseless.

Don’t let yourself be pressured or blackmailed. There are many people who take advantage of the kindness of others to achieve their purposes, without caring what others need. Find the balance by making the decision to do what someone else asks you to do for them.

2. COUNTLESS SORRY.
Thousand sorry can't change the situation if someone doesn't want to anticipate, only one sorry is enough to be nice.

The more you say it, the more you look weak. The nice person needs to be wary of the phrase, “I’m sorry,” to ensure that they are not apologizing for things that are not their fault and smoothing out emotions that the other person should be working on themselves.

It’s okay to accept responsibility for your own choices and actions, both positive and negative, but nice people must be wary of not taking on emotional responsibilities that do not belong to them.

3. TEAR CLEANER.
Stop being tear cleaner and giving your shoulder to cry, focus on your self-esteem and your priorities.

The inner sense of control over your own life is one of the things that improves mental health, and this feeling comes from certain types of behaviour: setting priorities, saying ‘no’ without feeling guilty, protecting against possible harm, choosing healthy relationships with people, getting what you paid for, creating life happiness.

4. SELF PRIORITY.
Give yourself some priority and make yourself important. If you want others to respect you, then start respecting yourself.

If you waste your important time in helping others then the next you may look around and see that years have passed without making meaningful progress on your problems that would allow you to find peace of mind and happiness.

Be nice to the world, if that’s what you want to put into it, but don’t forget to treat yourself just as well as you treat others.

These are some things that make a person weak and senseless if you want to avoid it then start giving yourself some respect and priority.

SEE DREAMS WRITE IT DOWN AND MAKE YOUR GOALS TO ACHIEVE IT.
Jack Canfield once quoted:

Successful people maintain a positive focus in life no matter what is going on around them. They stay focused on their past successes rather than their past failures, and on the next action steps, they need to take to get them closer to the fulfilment of their goals rather than all the other distractions that life presents to them.

Live your life in the best way possible and tell your stories @the.man.like.manyavar on Instagram.

HAVE A GREAT DAY AHEAD!

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