People : Sharmaji Ka Beta

Beta settle ho ja , ek baar waqt nikal gaya to kuch nahi ho sakta

The above statement has become the adage of the millennium . Adults get to hear it much to their annoyance. Society shoves the common judgements to marry , settle down, have kids down our throat so that it looks Picture Perfect .eg. Sharmaji ka beta has become an ideal example of having the perfect job, luxurious car , penthouse, abroad life in short the perfect settled life. often this becomes the norm that all need to comply and get inspired from.

But this need not be true. Everyone has their own idea of perfect life even if it means living alone but living on their own terms . This commotion arises because our expectations do not meet society's expectations and vice versa . Often adults succumb to negative pressure and take drastic steps which ruin their life forever .

Instead of harbouring hate for society which is fatal to our own well being let us be more patient, loving and compassionate towards our elders family friends or society in general . The reason is that we humans can't escape society it's better that we bring changes in ourselves to meet the ever changing needs of society. My point here is that we humans are meant to co-exist, we love each other, we hate each other but we can't ignore each other.

If we take society's comments/judgements positively we can turn the world in our favour which is more accepting and embracing towards us .The same people can be turned into well wishers who once used to nag and irritate us . I call these people ( parents , Aunties, neighbours relatives family friends ) well -wishers because people in general love to see good and positive things happening around them . Society wants us to have happy endings otherwise who would prefer to have a broken heart, damaged family relations, imbalance in social atmosphere and what not .These are the people who want you to have a good life which prospers in health and happiness. The society (including you ) dreams of a good life or the perfect life but this is not possible without the blessings of well -wishers and your hard work.

So next time whenever anyone quips /prods you about your life - invite them feel, blessed that they considered you important in their life and just positively affirm that "LIFE IS IN PROGRESS "