All Guys Aren't The Same.

Let's get to the point, we all have been hearing this for ages that boys are superior than girls, boys are physically, mentally, and emotionally fit to face the world and not girls and what not about this sheer stupidity. Taking advantage of this so-called 'superiority' factor, it is considered that boys usually have a crude behavior towards girls. But is it really so?

I'm an 17 year old guy, so i may not be the right guy to tell right now what is the actual reality of this(we can find that 'asli-sachaai' on our news channels), but what i have observed around me is quite similar to that. Yes majority boys' attitude towards girls is really embarrassing. It simply looks like even after 17 years in this world and 13-14 years of schooling sure has made us academically good, but morally even animals are better than us. And not only girls, but to any other person. We don't know how to greet, how to show respect to a person and then expect all the things from the one standing in front of us. Great! We don't know what and how we should talk in front of girls. And you know what the best part is, if a boy shows some respect to people, talks mannerly to girls, he is told to be 'fake'. Absolutely Great!

So i am gonna ask those 'people' who pointed those boys 'fake', man... is it really an issue to talk someone with respect? is it really an issue to talk mannerly to girls? Is it so? What will you prove if you talk ill-mannerly? Nothing, it will just show your 'hollow' personality which is a disgrace to our country. You'll not only be considered a disgrace to this society, but you're parents will be ashamed of you and that's most hurtful thing you can imagine. That's all. And to those who think that only boys are responsible, girls are too responsible for this.

Today's' Girls' tagline - "All boys are the same.". Hello, no one is same in this world. So, why boys huh? There are some boys who think that we should talk to girls in a proper manner, There are some who think that girls are equal to boys, There are some who think that girls can achieve anything. If this is so, then why do you all think that "all boys are the same." huh?And it is not true that girls do not ill-treat boys. Girls do this too. They think that boys don't cry, boys can't wear pink, boys can't gossip. Boys are more emotional than girls okay? It's just that they hide their pains better which is why you think we don't cry. And don't you dare think that boys never get those family 'taanas'. We too get a number of those, and they really hurt us but its just that rather than screaming and making a hole issue out of it, we just keep mum.

And those 'taanas' are also given to those boys who give respect to girls. So wanna know why we keep mum? It's because rather than arguing and trying to prove that 'Yes, we are right", we believe that "One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another wants to say.". The 'catch' here is not to respect only girls, but to respect each and every individual who is talking with respect to you.

Yeah, this will continue for a long time but i think that one simple step can do wonders to it. If the boys just talk mannerly to girls, give them respect, and girls appreciate those who do this, i don't think then they'll be any problem. So please boys, Show some respect man, Nothing will be with you, but if you give respect, you'll get respect. As simple as that.