Colour Palette

We see so many colours around us. Some are bright, some are dull, some bring spark and some bring gloominess. Do you know we can even chart the people around us with the colours we accumulate in our lives. The liked ones with the most likeable colours and others deserve the unlikely ones. Well there is a perfect bifurcation if you want to use.

According to me these colours match the personalities that I have met in my life.

Green: It stands for the ‘Therapists’ in our lives. It brings the fresh vibe in our lives. It determines growth and development. A therapist is a combination of sweet and bitter person. He can keep your deepest darkest secrets and even take you out of the depression you are suffering from and growing your eyes bags out. On the other hand he can be your devil’s advocate but you won’t mind it because they see what you’re capable of and help you lead your way.

Red: It stands for the ‘Bossy Pants’ in your life. They think they are righteous which on a positive aspect is a good thing but not when this trait controls others life. You can’t afford to miss their presence because they think they ignite our worlds. Their egos are big and treat us as inferior.Basically they are the shot callers.

Pink: It stands for the ‘Comedians’ our lives who your pink lips smile from one ear to the other.The joy of having this friend is that life is taken as a joke.During some difficult times you seek the sight and routine sarcasm stand up of these comedians. They bring light and brightness to our lives.

Yellow: It stands for the ‘I am burning’ kind of person in our lives. Jealousy is something we are all guilty of sometimes. However, this negative emotion has to be controlled, so that it doesn’t destroy us. Their mind-set is simple: by making you feel inferior and losing your sense of self-worth, they level out the playing field, thereby artificially inflating who they are in relation to you. To separate these sorts of jests from the harmless ones, you need to keep in touch with your inner self. Your intuition will never steer you wrong.

Orange: It stands for the chirpy talkers who behind the back of the world, ‘Gossiper’. They are your personal broadcasting new channels. When you’re together, everything seems fine, but then you notice a destructive pattern. Worse yet, you can’t seem to be able to find a reason for them causing you harm, not even after closely examining your actions and everything you might have possibly said to them, which creates even more hurt.

Purple: It stands for the ‘Bearer of the bad news’. They friends may not have any attention to bring anxiety to you but unfortunately they come to us with the world’s most bad affairs. They are those negative chip that stick to you but you have to bear because at least they inform you with current stuff.

Blue: It stands for the ‘Lazy Slouches’ that you have in our life. These sleepy heads are those who make you wait everytime you are going anywhere with them. They aren’t ready for anything because of the snoory habit of theirs. They want to lie on the couch and rest as if they have climbed Mt. Everest. But whatever it is they have the best hacks to make some difficult tasks easy.

Black: It stands for those kind of people ‘Who know it all’. We love someone who knows things, but what we cannot tolerate is the one who is an expert of all! This is that one person who says things without truly checking their facts. They are the con artists, the emotional vampires sucking on your lack of knowledge in a specific area. Most times they are so full of insecurities that in order to feel superior they must make you feel stupid. These are the self-reliant liars.

Monchrome:It stands for those personalities who are the 'Multiple- Offenders'. You know them by calling them two faced. Well many people change their colours according to the situation they fall into. They are those people who take the best advantage for themselves. They are clever. As it goes without saying, this would undermine the inherent complexity of life, society, and human nature. So yes, a single person could share two (or more) of the same characteristics we’ve discussed above!

The world is a complex place, and in certain cases, it’s tough to reduce a given act to being either good or bad (nor should you, as most often it’s one of the shades of gray). You can, however, be thankful for having the kind of people around you who act as a positive force in your life, and call out the toxic people for the mischief they cause; the aim is to hold them accountable for it.At the end of the day, doing what’s right seldomly feels easy, and you’re probably better off alone than having to deal with toxic friends who have an unhealthy influence on you and your environment. Surround yourself with folks who bring you to your best. You can easily spot those others who suck on your emotional needs and stories. Always be yourself and attract the best types of people who enrich your life with joy.