Single Mother And Their Fight

"Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children"

Single mother- the mother who lives and raises her children without staying with her partner or husband or having legal custody of the child.So now you must be knowing reasons of becoming single parent. Right?This includes breakup, divorce, abandonment, death of the other parent, or adoption by a single mother.

A single mother has to go through a lot of emotional battles. Many things get hard and difficult for a mother.And deprivation of support, financial struggles are the added part to it. They need to accept that they can't deal with society. Society never accepts a single parent specially if it's a mother.They abuse saying different harsh words pushing the person into her darkness of her life. All these taunts,abuses involves about their previous relationships or parents prestige or illegitimacy of the child which is very painful to bear the insult.

During the pregnancy she has to deal with her emotional need and hormonal changes all alone. After the baby is born, things don't change for her. When it comes to filling up of forms and the judgemental looks to ignore, other person won't talk to them because their wives are insecure about a single mother.

A research says that over 26% of US households are ran by a single parent.Schools when keep events of father child,these give the singly raised Children as very isolated and unloved.

Single mothers on average are statistically poorer than the general population. Unfortunately about half are living in poverty where as other half are settled and have capability to raise the child singly.They need works and most of the industries don't value single mothers.

And also they go with the flow but also feel changes in them.They feel loss of freedom too. Those days were gone when one would come late at night or crave for pizza and can do hangover as per her choice. Every time a constant question goes on in mind that " Can I do this with my kids or in front of them? ". They need a balance every time with new responsibilities arising every moment in their life. They need to provide both mom and dad's love to the child. They deal with their time going after their passion and also looking after their kids. Of course!They lose their independence in a certain way.

Guys don't you think our mothers too are kind of these single mothers?Because whatever these people do our mothers having a partner too do all these works and bear all the pain alone.Every mother present in this world is a perfect single mother.

And we children what we do?We fight with our mom and shout why we didn't get our delicious food, why she didn't allow us to go out? , why she doesn't give us enough money to spend like a spoilt brat?We don't understand her pain. Pain behind her child's love,her care,her fear of losing us, her scolds when we go in wrong path,her support in need,her love when we are sad,her motivation during every competition and exams,her hard work for our life.

I am sorry mamma for every mistakes I have done,disrespecting you at times,fighting with you for not able to make my favourite food because of your some busy schedule,and thank you for being there when I needed support,unconditional love and everything you have done for me which can never be compared with anything...

Mom's love...