Why Do We Fight Change So Vehemently?

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Arunima Bharadwaj
May 20, 2019   •  93 views

Change... Is the inevitable and basic process that defines life. When a lifeless cocoon turns into a beautiful lively butterfly it has no idea what it is emerging into. And it won't be able to experience life if it hadn't gone under the different stages of its life cycle Or shall we say, undergo the changes! Similar is the case with us humans. In anyone's life, change is must and should be inherited and accepted in a positive manner with a positive attitude. One cannot move forward without accepting change!

But the main issue with the homosapiens is we do not want to get out of our comfort zone. We hate coming out of the well that we are accustomed to. Why? Why do we fight change so vehemently? Because that's what our roots are watered with.

If you look back I'm your past, you'll realize that at each phase of your life you've to adopt change to be successful. By 'change', I mean adopt such a way that will boost up your inner self to attain a positive approach towards life and things.

'Change is the key to find out who you really are!' To know yourself and explore your true potential as a human, you ought to adopt 'change'. We lack the confidence to accept ourselves. Who we are is not decided by people but ourselves! If a person wish to gain respect of others, he must know how to respect himself first! It's you who would have to value yourself first and be ready to accept any challenge that comes your way!

We mortals are afraid to test our destinies, to test our limits, skills and ourselves because we are moulded and brought up in such a way. What we crave for is not acceptance but assurance. Assurance of not being judged and being recognized as and how we are!

We are so afraid to accept the reality that we are satisfied in whatever state. To accept change one needs to be fearless and bold, courageous enough to fight the patriarchal society. Find your inner strength and know that 'change' for good is the only notion for a healthy survival. The world is of the fittest and to survive in this cruel world, one must test his capabilities by challenging himself!

You may not know what you are capable of until you take the step!
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Atharva Thombre  •  4y  •  Reply
Nice :)
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Jayant Jyoti  •  4y  •  Reply
Good one