A Meaningful Relationship

“To know when to go away and when to come closer is the key to any lasting relationship.”

Relationships – the way in which two or more people are connected, byblood, bymarriage, by work, by intimacy, by interests, or by friendship require a lot of work, by all the people included. A true relationship gives meaning to life. Generally, it shows how we relate to others. Each and every interaction we have with another person is the act of relating. If we have a problem relating to others, it affects our ability to have supportive relationships. In a good relationship, people are happy, peaceful and get along, encourage each other and are there for one another always. But good relationships don't just happen, they are constructed over four basic pillars:

• Communication

• Commonalities

• Respect

• Trust

The first pillar holding up a good, healthy relationship isverbal communication. All relationships depend on it. Sharing of ideas, feelings and expectations with your partner is much important in a relationship. Information, such as one’s needs, concerns, and frustrations, is transmitted through people, mostly through verbal communication.

The second pillar of a great relationship is the people involved havingsimilar objectives. Similarities tend to bring together seemingly different people. When people can work together toward a common goal, whatever it may be, they can be looked at as essentially being part of a relationship. Because, they were brought together, and connected, by a common task.

Respect and trust are the last two pillars of a good relationship. Respect is a pattern of behavior that is found in healthy relationships.You have to give respect in order to get it, and it is something everyone deserves.And, what does trust mean? Believing somebody implies that you think they are dependable, you believe in them and you feel safe with them physically and inwardly. Trust is something that two individuals in a relationship can manufacture together when they choose to believe each other.

Nowadays, Relations are losing their actual meaning. They don't want to understand each other, they always try to make others understand. A deep meaningful relationship is missing now. An actual relationship is not about pleasure, It's all about love, you can see in each other's eyes. It's about blind trust between the couples.

Once again, relationships require constant work and focus and patience – but it’s supposed to be worth it: successful, happy and healthy relationships equate to a high quality of life. Research indicates that people need other people in order to live long, happy and healthy lives, which requires happy and healthy relationships among people. It’s a simple notion, really. But it works – and has always worked.