EXPLAIN WHAT SPACE MEANS TO YOU
There are numerous kinds of space in relationships. You guys might be wondering that even space has kinds to it and some of you might also reconsider your decision of entering into a relationship as there are hell lot of things to care about. You should explain your partner about the amount of time you need, that may vary from a week or a month so that your partner understands what you really mean by space.
ACT IN A SELFISH MANNER
Yes, you rad it right i am asking you to be selfish. There are negligible opportunities to be selfish in a relationship so go guys do not waste this wonderful opportunity coming your way!! Just kidding . If you behave in selfish manner then it just reflects that you are not trying to ruin the existing equation but rather you are making this decision on a personal level.
DEFINE BALANCE BETWEEN THE RELATIONSHIP
Another big confusion arises when both the partners are unaware of the required amount of space each of them wants. It is natural as there cannot be a fixed definition to it because no " Book of Rules for a long lasting relationship " exists.
DO NOT FORGET THAT YOU ARE INDIVIDUALS FIRST AND THEN PARTNERS
In several relationshipsthe person looses his/ her individuality for the sake of saving the relationship. Isn't it cringy to be after your partner's life for everything just because you are in a relationship. Show some mercy on your partner so that he/she has a life of his /her own and your life should not revolve around your partner just because you are in a so called relationship.
• ALWAYS ENCOURAGE YOUR PARTNER
I know this might sound a bit harsh but it is what it is . Encourage your partner and respect his/her decision for desiring space. I'm sure you guys must be thinking that it cannot be followed practically and is just a matter of saying but to be honest if the person's personal identity is solid it is more likely that the relationship might be a joyful ride.