Expectations a word used by many but fulfilled by few. Our life is full of expectations, be it be from our parents, siblings, friends, relatives, etc. As we grow , expectations go hand in hand with us. The joy that one gets on fulfillment of expectations is always much lower than the sorrow one gets on its non-fulfillment. It requires great courage to fulfill one's expectations and that's the reason why most of us are not able to cater to the expectations of others.
All of us remain lost into the hope that our expectations would be fulfilled by others. When others are unable to fulfill them , we feel low and dejected. Because it is easy to go with the flow always, we never ever think of expecting anything from ourselves. We always rely on others to fulfill our expectations instead of being aware of the fact that one has to fightbattle on their own. Depending on others for the things we want , restrict us to lower levels and thus prevents us from reaching our potential.
When everyone has their own fight , one must have expectations from oneself in order to win them.
As said earlier, expectations require great dedication, Why don't we give this challenge to us? Do we consider ourselves as weak? Incapable? Or we don't know our own potential? The answer to these questions is that we haven't ever given ourselves a chance to fulfill our expectations on our own and thus we are unaware of our power and have been mistakenly considered ourselves as weak and incapable .
Whenever we find anything difficult for us , we expect that work to be performed by others for us. We always choose to be in our comfort zone and thus resort to easy measures. This hinder us from knowing our potential. In order to earn anything we have to get up and work towards it. All of us must have great expectations from ourselves, we must desire for big goals and mould ourselves accordingly to achieve them. Expecting anything from own , if not fulfilled, will generate impulses in the person that would command his efforts towards his expectations leading to their fulfilment.
Thus , it depends on us to give the chance to fulfill our expectations on our own rather than losing it to someone else to do it for us. When a person does a work for his wellbeing on his own , it leads to Better results as when it is done by others 😋