Embrace The Pain

You might be wondering why one should embrace Pain?

Many of us look at pain with a negative perspective but pain also has a positive effect, like the two sides of a coin. Consider these binaries, day and night, black and white, male and female and pain and pleasure. Don’t you think these all terms work in balanced proportions? One without the other will be of no use. If we will not experience pain we will never be able to understand the value of pleasure. We, human beings are no less than machines. Machinesneed fuel to work. For their smooth functioning, it’s necessary to provide this fuel from timeto time. Similarly all living beings require some ingredients in their life to push them towards their growth. And pain is one of them. Yes, you read it right! Pain is one of the ladders to growth. We all come across Pain at different stages of our lives. Pain is that kind of an experience which shatters you internally but once we come out of our shell, it is the most essential experience that one could have. People suffer different kinds of pain , physical pain ,mental pain, sufferings etc but all these add up to the growth of an individual. Life is like a process and pain is one of its core elements. It is very important to experience pain. Pain acts as a purifier.

Have you ever wondered about the statues which we see in mall as a display? Every beautiful statue is nothing but a piece of marble which embraced pain. Have you ever imagined about those bollywood actors whom people admire and praise. They are human beings like us but then what differentiates them from us? They achieve this position after so much of hard work, dedication and in that process they have to go through the pain and sufferings. But those pain and sufferings are worth it. It is the quest that whether we want to be successful in life like them or whether we want to be in our own shell. Life is like a sculptor, it wants to make a masterpiece out of every individual but for that we have to face trouble, problems. If we want to look something different , if we want to stand out of the crowd then we will have to bear pain. We will have to go through the sufferings. Nothing comes for free, right? We have to pay the price for everything in life.

Life is a boon given to us by God. In life we will face bittersweet moments. Some moments will be of so much great importance to us that we will treasure them forever on the other hand we will encounter such circumstances too which will deforme us but they mould us into the best version of ourselves. No one loves pain. But this is inevitable in life. Pain is the part of the process, it is universal. So experience it and deal with it instead of putting blame on others. Rather than complaining all the time, just feel the power of pain and what does it do to you. Don’t be afraid of it, be a learner and learn how to face challenges in life and come as a bright rainbow out of that cloud.