Love And Imperfections.

Love. It is a beautiful feeling indeed. Provided you give it to the right people. Else , you will come to see it as one of the ugliest things you know. See , the truth is , it's all on us. It's about how we decide to look at things , learn from things and let's just say handle things on the whole.

It's okay to fall in love with someone and give your all to that feeling of love. But if the person on the receiving end is not someone who you thought he/she was , then trouble starts then. Because you will fall into this dark void from which you might not be able to come out of. Again , this depends on you , on how you want to look at life after that. You might feel like you lost everything. You might feel like you've lost your ability to love. But the sad truth is , like Captain America says , "You gotta move on...gotta move on". And for this to happen , you have to actually decide to let go and move on. Because noone and absolutely noone can help you with this phase. It is at this point that the fact that at the end of the day , you only have yourself should hit you hard.

Next comes the self blaming phase. You might feel like it is your fault that you're feeling the pain. But the truth is , not everyone is capable of loving. The most important thing that you should keep in mind before falling for anyone is , no expectations , no disappointments. Because you know what they say about Hope , it breeds eternal misery. This is the key to a happy mind through which in turn , you get a happy life.

And finally , I would like to say that your imperfections make you beautiful. Your scars , your heartbreaks , your failures , your wrong judgements , all of this is what makes you beautiful. Each downfall that happens , it makes you stronger. It helps you grow emotionally stronger. After all , the world is not a wish granting factory.