Arranged Marriage: A Sensible Decision

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Sayali Kawade
May 31, 2019   •  91 views

Our perspectives and presumptions about marriage are a pole apart. Every one of us thinks differently and has a different point of view. Some prefer love marriage while some prefer arranged marriage. But arranged marriages are far more likely to lead to lasting affection than marriages of passion, experts claim. According to research, those in arranged marriages – tend to feel more in love as time grows, whereas those in regular marriages feel less in love over time.

There are people who are just not good at dating . No matter how bad you may be at projecting a first impression on women and flirting with them, the destiny has planned always someone for you .All thanks to your parents as they will definitely find someone for you.

Marrying someone you've known for just a little while is as thrilling as it is frightening. The mystery, charm and bliss of spending your life with another person won’t come to a halt anytime . Each day, you'll learn new things about the other person, revealing a hundred stories, and making a thousand memories to last for a lifetime. And, what can be more romantic than falling more and more in love with your partner each day?

You tend to have lesser expectations from your spouse and be more tolerant which makes relationship much easier. But wherein love marriages, one starts expecting more as they already have spent time before. You’re more careful with your words and actions. Just like you would with someone new at the workplace or meeting a new friend.

We aren’t the Shaadi.com generation , we are the Tinder generation .We believe in dates instead of meetings, flings instead of something permanent .In short we aren't patient, we want everything to be instant .When our ideal partner is someone larger than life preferably like those in fantasiesit’s much sensible if we just hand over the choice to our parents. You have support by both the families as they paired the both of you, they’ll do everything and anything in their power to keep you both together and to make the relationship work.

Making your parents happy is the most ultimate joy in the world. A marriage is a big step in your life and your family's support is irreplaceable. Arranged marriages not only ensuresyour parents happiness but also strengthens the family bond. Every father looks forward to the tearful day when he gives his daughter away to her groom- while not all love marriages have that, the arranged marriages guarantee it!

And yes there comes my personally favourite part, The Big Fat Indian Weddings. Those stolen glances, those teasing by your loved one, the gifts and getting to know each other. With a reason for everyone to celebrate, it’s when all the important people in your life get together for your wedding.

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