Steps To Improve Your Communication Skills

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Sakshi Aggarwal
Mar 29, 2019   •  18 views

Everyone who thinks that they know English and Hindi up to the mark to be able to express their views have good communication skills. But the scenario is somewhat different you must know the language to speak, read, write and understand but you should be able to listen first what the other person is saying. Try to understand the scenario. Everyone is interested in speaking. Talking senseless and meaningless doesn't make you have good communication skills. Until you gain knowledge of the discussion. Nobody wants to listen to others they feel inferior while another person is speaking. Some tend to get offended and leave the discussion without any result.

What is the meaning of commune?
Obviously, you know to share your views which can only be possible if you try to listen to others silently first and then put your point of view. Let us focus on some points to improve our communication skills: -

oDon’t do the bombarding of questions:
People tend to speak first before listening. Even when someone asked me a question until and unless I don't explain my answer fully to you. How can you ask another question? But they think they are doing the right thing. First, listen to the explanation and try to understand then raise questions. Without knowing the details of what is my name and other minute details to move into friendship lane.How can someone be eager to make friends with me? Go slowly and steadily.

oKnow how to listen:
Be more interested in listening to other people first. That's how you will speak your correct opinion. People rush in and give their explanation regardless of the discussion topic. If you really want to improve your communication skills just focus now. Closely, have a watch on the word “LISTEN” if you shuffle the arrangement of letters it becomes “SILENT”. To be able to listen you need to be silent and when you are silent you will understand what he/she is saying then you are fully eligible to sow your seed into the ground. Try to do it you will feel the difference.

oFeel to get connected:
Feel what other person is saying and talking about. While feeling you will instantly be able to know how to react in this particular situation. If someone you love has lost his mother/father or had a breakup. How will you react to it? By saying that it’s going to be okay, you will be okay. No, that would be the normal reaction and someone you love you will not treat them genuinely. Sometimes after feeling their situation, you need to be silent or show some gesture like hugging them. It is not necessary that you need to speak every time. Sometimes you need to be silent to handle the situation.

oAct according to the situation:
You need to be precise or near-precision to handle the situation. If someone is already frustrated, you cannot complain to them about anything. As no one knows maybe his frustration burst out as anger on you. You need to think calmly before making a move. If a child is doing something wrong instead of saying something just stare at him/her. They will automatically be terrified that he/she has nothing to say. How is that so? That's how you are opposing your behavior and without talking, you got the hold of the situation.

There are uncountable possibilities which will let you make a decision. You have to choose it wisely whether to speak or not at all, speak more or less, show some gesture or speak loudly or politely. It all depends on the situation which you are in. you need to be near precision. Nobody is perfect select wisely and calmly.

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