Love- A Bliss😍❤️

For years, I have had this word ‘love’ in my mind. We are surrounded by so many things. There are some of the things which we like, some which we dislike, and some which we love. But what is love? Can anyone define love? Is it a feeling or something more than that? Has anyone thought of this word and try to realize its importance in our life? Is love something that can be found only between a boy and a girl? Or between husband and wife?

Love is an intense and purest feeling of affection we have for someone or something. Love is a bond which connects two different souls. Love is a blessing which we receive in different forms from different persons. Like, not everyone is lucky enough to get mother’s love, siblings love, friends love and soulmate’s love. Whenever we love something or someone, we put our best efforts to keep them safe and happy. Love is important in everyone’s life but it is not everyone’s cup of tea. The people who values and respect others choice and wishes more than themselves, are the ones who experiences love.

Love doesn’t come and go. It is like if you loved someone once, that felling will never end. Everyone needs love, to live a happy life but love doesn’t require any commitments, and if you love someone they automatically become your priority. There is no compulsion that you have to love everything and everyone around you. Love is a self developed feeling for a person, for whom we care about.But if you’re thinking you can stop someone from loving you, you’re wrong. Love is immortal and inevitable. It’s a feeling that can’t be destroyed by anyone just like that.

Love is inevitable, you can distance yourself from love but you can’t expel that feeling from someone’s heart.

Some people think that love means romance. No, romance is a part of love but love doesn’t mean romance only. Love is a feeling of mutual understanding, care, affection, and sympathy between two people. It is not important that to love someone only in their presence, without their presence you can still love them by giving your support and by helping them.

But have you ever heard of selfless love?

Selfless love is the best form of love. It’s like you are giving your best to a person by fulfilling every dream that they dreamt of, every want without letting them know or without expecting anything in return from them. This kind of love is but rare and precious. This is the type of love which our parents, our teachers and our friends give us. We can expect this form of love only from the closest people in our life. They spend their whole life struggling for us, by crushing their own dreams to fulfill ours. They always motivate us, provide us with the best facilities, share their experience and knowledge with us without demanding anything from us. This is a kind of love everyone should do.

No one can define love in a single definition. Everyone has different meaning and definition of love in their life and has different things which they love like some people love god, some love their work, some their parents, some love their soulmates, and some love their friends and not forget. Some of them are nature and animal lovers. Well the list goes on.

But have you ever loved yourself first?

If you want true love in your life, you have to face the feeling of heartbreak, pain, separation and betrayal because you can’t achieve love; love is something you have to earn from your heart. For experiencing the true side of love, first start loving yourself because if you can’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else. Just accept yourself the way you are. Start loving your flaws instead of your qualities because everyone will tell you your qualities but no one is going highlight your flaws. So, instead of neglecting your flaws, start working on them and give yourself some time to embrace and shine.

Once you start loving someone, don’t stop, give them your best time by appreciating and pampering them, show them your best efforts and if they are the people who actually deserve your love, you will definitely get the same love and affection from them. But, don’t waste your love emotion over someone who doesn’t respect and deserve it because it is the thing everyone craves for. Give it to someone who craves for your presence and happiness. But, never resist the feeling of love because no one knows what the plan of our destiny is. We’ll find our true love in the most unexpected ways. And, once you find your true love, embrace them, pamper them and love them and then see this worlds appear like a different and the most beautiful place to live in because of them.