Infatuation- Reflection Of Love....

Have you ever fallen in love with someone but then after sometimes, you started losing feelings for them? This thing happens so many times that you fall for someone but after some months or years you feel bored and irritated. But why does all of this happen? Does this feeling is actually the feeling of true love?

No, this isn’t true. This is not true love, its just the feeling of infatuation. Infatuation is an intense, strong feeling or desire for someone but for a short span of time.

When we feel attracted towards someone, most of the time we understand our feelings as true love but true love is something beyond fantasies and imagination. When you’re infatuated it is easy to confuse the definition of infatuation with love. There is huge difference between infatuation and true love.

Infatuation is a strong and overpower feeling which let us do the most insane and craziest things for the sake of our feelings. It is an intoxicating feeling in which we feel like we are in love with someone but the truth is we’re just attracted with their physical appearances or body. When you’re infatuated, you respect only your feelings and not the feelings of your partner, you want to stay close with them, you feel possessiveness, jealousy and get hurt easily when they take any decision without asking you or without you. Infatuation make you act like children who want everything what they like. Infatuation usually occurs at the starting of a relationship when we are closer to our partners, its all because of our sexual desires which we feel at a particular age. Infatuation make you weak and tempted.

On the other hand, true love is not just an emotion or feeling. Love is an intense and purest feeling of affection we have for someone and something. Love is a bond which connects two different souls. Love is a blessing which we receive in different forms from different persons. Whenever we love something or someone, we put our best efforts to keep them safe and happy. Love is important in everyone’s life but it is not everyone’s cup of tea. The people who value and respect others choices and wishes more than themselves, are the people who get the chance of experiencing love. Love doesn’t come and go, it is like if you loved someone once, that felling will never end. In love, presence doesn’t matter, you can spend your time even with their memories.

Infatuation is just reflection of love, it feels like true love but in actual it's not. Heartbreaks and lust is common in this. The feeling of infatuation make you live in fantasy world but it only last for 6 months to 1 year because the reality cannot accept it. Whenever you see a guy or a girl, you went on a cloud nine butwhen you think about them in your life, you don’t feel right or whenever you’re in a relationship youdistance yourself from your friends, family just for the sake of your partner, this is all what we call infatuation.

Infatuation usually end up hurting you or someone else because those feelings are never realistic or true. If you fall in love before the age of 20’s, most of the time it is infatuation. There is no sense of understanding between two people when they’re infatuated because physical attraction and their sexual desires are the things which are connecting them together. When we realize this thing, we are almost on the verge of hurting others because everyone doesn’t get to know about that they are infatuated and think like they are actually in love. Infatuation is damaging the sense of true love because at an early age, they started feeling for others and when they get hurt, they say things like love is fake and all…. But you have to understand that it’s your mistake that you’re not understanding the difference between true love and infatuation.

"Every feeling of affection is not true love."

So, to stop this feeling, its better to think before making any commitment to someone because you don’t know what are their actual feelings? It can be infatuation or it can be true love.💔