All Relationships have one law,Never make the one you love feel alone,especially when you're there
Relationships-the way in which two or more people are connected,by blood,by work,by intimacy, by interests, or by friendship-require a lot of work by all the people included.But relationships give meaning to life;they are result of people needing each other for various reasons:for emotional support,psycological well being,love,and affection etc.But not all relationships are good relationships.
In good relationships,people are happy,healthy and carefree.But good relationships don't just happen.They are constructed over time-by these four pillars.They are
1)Communication
2) Commonalities
3)Respect
4)Trust
The first pillar is communication,which is most important.Relationship is all about love,and when it comes down to it ,love is something which is communicated by the people.This includes successful conveying sharing of ideas,feelings,experiences among the people in the relationship.
The second pillar of great relationship is the people involved having similar objectives.A family co-exists peacefully when each family member wants peace and happiness.Two young people who envision a future together both want the same thing;therefore their relationship is based on,among other things,their goal to live together throughout life on a intimate basis.
When people can work together toward a common goal,whatever it may be,they can be looked at as essentially among part of relationship-because they were brought together,and connected,by a common task.
Respect and trust,the last two pillars of a good relationship,go hand in hand.People have good relationships with people they respect and trust.Respect,in case,indicates to a deep admiration for another person elicted by their abilities,qualities or achievements.Many relationships are formed out of respect,at least in non familial situations.The same goes for trust,the frim belief in the reliability,truth,ability or strength of someone,or the abscence of the truth of a tstement without evidence or investigation.
When it comes to relationships among people, the key is maximizing those moments of selflessness and putting the focus on that other person or group of people. This especially pertains to ones with family members and spouses – or would-be spouses. But these relationships would also crumble to the ground without the other three pillars – without trust and respect and commonalities shared and practiced among the people comprising these relationships.
In conclusion,a good relationship isn't simply supported by just one ting,but supported by a number number of things.A good relationship where two or more people are connected through something,whether blood,marriage or mutual affection,needs a steady dose of communication,similar objectives,respect,and trust-the four pillars for any successful relationship.