Is The Grass Always Green?

Comparison can ruin your life or it can improve your life. But the percentage of destruction is more than improvement. Envying is a human instinct or you can also say human tendency.

Humans have always been jealous of what others have and they desire to reach that position in their life. But the question is how? Everything has two sides like a coin, reaching your desire has the same methodology. You get what you choose, whether through good deeds or bad deeds, that completely depends on you.

It's rightly said that grass is always greener on the other side, looking at others greener side through our eyes can be an illusion or a mirage whose reality is realized after a long period of time when everything is achieved or is lost in the darkness of ignorance.

It's good to compete but in a healthy way without harming anybody emotionally or physically. A healthy competition is always admired but the opposite can led to negative consequences.

Sometimes I too get attracted towards the shiny things and that consequently leads to pessimism, disappointment, distress and what not. But with the time I have realized that one has to wait for the right time and need to work hard and has to believe in oneself.

"A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity. "