8 Simple And Easy Steps To Win Everyone Hearts

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Sparsh Mathur
Mar 23, 2019   •  22 views

Ever invited to an unknown place or going to meet someone and you are nervous about the situation?

And now you are confused about how you are going to impress someone?

The saying "first impression is the last impression is correct somewhere."

But a recent report shows that it takes almost ten days to know someone.
So, if you are concerned about self then you are not going to impress anyone.

“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.”

All you have to do is to follow these eight simple and easy steps to impress anyone:

1. Stop caring about self and start focussing on others.
The more you will care about the self, the more you become uncomfortable.
Look others observe them because they are feeling the same, according to a report tons of people self-identify as shy — in fact, the numbers of shy people have grown in the past 20 years (58% in 2007, up from 40% in 1995). "According to the shyness research, most of us feel uncomfortable walking into a room where we don't know many people.

2. Maintain a good smile.
Take a deep breath and calm yourself!
Maintaining a perfect smile is the must thing to do.
Just keep in your mind, your facial expressions shows that you are a trustworthy person, smile naturally because a fake smile can judge your attitude.

“A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.”

3. Do your homework.
Before going to an unknown place do your homework, you should know everything about that place and the people you are going to meet.

Mental preparation can put you on the right side before you even enter the room and will minimize your effort. And dressing as formally or informally as other people are will make you feel more comfortable and less self-conscious. This allows you to focus more on the conversations you are going to have, rather than wonder if people are judging you for wearing a T-shirt to a formal event.

“Do research. Feed your talent. Research not only wins the war on cliche, but it's also the key to victory over fear and it's cousin, depression.”

4. A perfect introduction.

Prepare to introduce self, people will judge you on the foundation of it.
Introduction idea is to give the other person something that they can comment on to get the conversation going.

Prepare a two-line introduction like:
Hi, it's nice meeting you! I'm from Delhi, and it's been great to explore this city."

5. What about you?
Now it's your turn to listen, keep your focus on them and maintain eye contact so that they can trust you and tell you everything.

Maintaining proper eye contact can help you a lot to have better communication.

"Eye contact is more intimate than words will ever be."

6. Everybody love compliments.
If you want to give a compliment, express them!
Everyone loves to perceive happiness and giving a compliment makes you admirable. When you are making an observation, accompany it with a question or a statement that invites them to give you a bit more.

7. Maintain your body language.
A confident body language does more than make you look good it makes you more memorable and plausible.

Traits of a good body language include having a firm handshake, standing up straight, and maintaining eye contact both while listening and speaking.

Body language is a very powerful tool. We had body language before we had speech, and apparently, 80% of what you understand in a conversation is read through the body, not the words.

8. Be unique.
Breaking out of the social norm is an easy way to stick out. exhibit your uniqueness. So that the person never forgets you and wants to meet you again.

“In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.”

Apply these steps in your daily life and win everyone hearts.
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Have a great day ahead!

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