Fear Or Fantasy

The blurring connection between your fear or fantasy is interesting. For some people things/places/emotions might be categorised as fear but may be fantasy for others. Everyone has their own fears or fantasies which differ from others. Everything might not be fearful and not everything can be a fantasy. Fear is something that you are afraid of and fantasy is something you want to opt for and do it atleast once in a lifetime.

Lets talk about heights. What is the first impression in your mind when you hear the word heights. Some might think of mountains or may be adventurous activities. Others might think of para gliding or flying. Some might think of heights as a spot of adventure, fun activities and daring acts. But others are afraid to fall from the heights. They might be afraid to fall or afraid to carry on that actvity with confidence. These two sides have different aspects towards life. The adventurous side reflects their open atitude towards life, not afraid to fall and confident. They want to do everything life is offering them. So, its a fantasy for them. But it is fear for people who are afraid to try out new things, hesitate to opt for new things and not open to everyone. But it is totally a personal perspective thing to decide if it is your fear or fantasy.

Secondly, now lets talk about parents. Parents are the most precious gift of god. They nurture us right from the very beginning. They are your strength and your weakness. The thought of losing your parents makes you weak and fearful. Everyone is afraid to lose their parents and this thing makes you full of fear. The same thought keeps repeating in your mind disturbs you. But my friend, learn to accept the true reality of life and face off the hardships. Dont let this thought overcome you or make you feel low.

What does your mind strike first when i say the word 'romance'. Yes its Love week going on and Valentine day is just two days away. This idea might sound interesting for mostly people in love or willing to be in love. But it is not a fantasy for everyone existing. For some people this idea is very casual or usual and no big deal for them. But some might be afraid to fall in love, keeping in mind the experiences of others or may be out of fear of getting hurt. Romance is not a fantasy for everyone, but also fear for those who actually have been through this path.

So, fear and fantasy cannot be same for everyone due to differnt concepts, interests and experiences. One might like roses but the other may be fond of sunflowers. You cannot force anyone to interpret the ideas in the manner you do. Everyone has different thoughts and ideas. Let them decide what are their fears or fanstasies.