How Much Is Too Much?

There is fine line between Criticism and Rash comments.

Criticism, you must be familiar with the word. If not...

criticism/

ˈkrɪtɪsɪz(ə)m/

noun

the analysis and judgement of the merits and faults of a literary or artistic work.

That is what google says the meaning is, but as many words. This word doesn't express only one meaning

criticism

/ˈkrɪtɪsɪz(ə)m/

noun

the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes.

But, in this context we are going with the first meaning that I mentioned. A analysis of someone's work not disapproval.

We all go through many works of literature and art or perhaps of many other field. Be it school or work, getting your work reviewed by a second person is a good way to filter the faults you might have missed up.

But suppose this second person was you. How do you usually respond when given a opportunity to comment on other's work?

Are you a person who keeps their

true, unhoneyed words out there. Or do you try to tell the true facts in a more subtle way?

Whatever is that you do. Let's see when criticism crosses its line to mere hurtful comments.

Being rude in the name of being truthful isn't the way to go:(

It's only human to not meet everyone's view. It's alright if you find some faults in someone 's work or disagree.

It is also humane to feel insecure or hurt, when receiving harsh replies about your work.

So how do we put out the truth but be kind?

Know that you aren't sure if that's what the person wants. Perhaps that little fault is what the person wanted to put out in the first place? Confused?suppose you are viewing a literature. Suppose it's really descriptive and you think it's not a good writing trait. BUT that's your thinking of a good writing, not theirs. Perhaps that's their writing style. Now put yourself in their shoes. How would you feel about being told that your writing style is a mistake? Instead you can suggest and say "It's really well but I think that it's too descriptive for me". One more way is to add humour. Humour always makes it less serious, so you can go "Aha! Great writing but it's too descriptive for me. But whatever sails your boat though " this way you aren't telling them it's a fault but implying it still and letting them know. Now it's up to them how they take the information

So always start with a "In my opinion... "

Instead of a rash "it's wrong"

Understand you aren't a certified professional. And even if you are. It's personal outlook. Just be softer with it.

Cause it's really tough, it takes courage to put forth your work, your creativity. Especially in creative fields. They need motivations and criticism not demotivation.