A lot of people tend to say, that this book changed my life.
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Really, basically change has to be enforced day by day, it does not depend on the introduction of an idea; what an idea does is it opens a new door for your mind to see! Many people call the amazement felt by that idea the change, but in reality, no noticeable change occurs in their behavior. Many people try to implement what they learn from the idea, but in a few days go back to their old ways. only a few stay with the idea and bring about a difference in themselves. what we learn is, no idea alone can change you, it's what you do with it that causes the change. in short, you cause the change, and since it is you, let's consider this; who is that one person that knows about you? with whom it's consciously not possible to lie? one you care about the most and would listen to most?
well, it's you again.
Basically, question is why haven't you change yourself yet?
the reason is because you're only lilmited to a one way conversation with yourself, it's not a dialogue.
you're moved to action when your best friend is in some trouble, the girl you like is in stress, you give up everything to rescue them. but when it's yourself going through stress, it never happens, because in those times, you expect others to do that for you. that's why we value other people so much because we want them to hear our problems, treat them with seriousness, and fix us but they can not feel that urgency because it is your problem.
your life's story is yours, and everything you go in it, will felt by you alone. so here what you need to do;
In your phone, download any voice recording app. record a message to person you'r gonna be a week later this is not a message to the person you're right now. so talk about the problem you're currently facing, the things that give you stress, advise him on how to solve thsese and talk to him about your dreams, tell him with great details about what you feel about those dreams, how badly you want them to happen. explain to them why they need to get out of spaces and relationships they are stuck, tell them that they are important.
After a week, when you play the message, it's going to change your life, because that would the best message, the most personal, heartwarming thing you will experience. it is your own self talking to you like a brother. And nobody knows more about you in depth than yourself.
keep doing it every week beacuase change is long porcess, and advisable to pushed, motivated, cared for every step through so take responsibilty like a boss on that message.
I promise you that a week later, you can see yourself where you are.
I hope you will do this every week and never forget "You are awesome".