Unloving Your First Love..!!

People always say that first love never dies. However, why is it so? Why forgetting your first love is so hard? Love is a feeling which makes two people live for each other. They try to find peace with their partner and always does things which would make them happier. When people fall in love for the first time, it is altogether a strange feeling for them. This is because, during that time, those things happen that has never taken place in their life, like having butterflies in your stomach on seeing your love, or getting nervous while talking to that person or to get your heart beat so fast that it seems that it will tear your chest out.

These feelings are new to you, and you somewhat like that feeling, you feel good about it, and you want to imagine your future with that person. When that love is reciprocated in the same way, then you start feeling good about yourself and pay more attention to how you look, what you wear, and what you say. Love altogether changes the person. It makes them see the good in them and their passion.

When you find your first love and spend time with them, you make some fantastic memories. You share your secrets and your feelings and listen to their ambition and wishes. When you get closer to that person, you feel happy, and you start imagining your future with them and want to spend your entire life with them. You cannot imagine how you will live your life if that person is not with you, and you will also wonder how did you live for so many years without them. All these things make your love stronger and precious, and these things happen only when you are in love.

However, when this love or the relationship breaks after some time, it shatters your world, and you feel that the universe has come to an end. This gets serious when you both have stayed together for an extended period. You feel a void in your heart on losing that person, and every single thing reminds you of them. This is because in that long period you have made lots of memories and memories are not easily forgotten, and every only place that you visited with them brings back all those little smiles and laughter that you have spent there, together. Now that person is not with you, you feel a space which needs to be filled, but when you can't find a way you get depressed. You can not easily forget them because you think that you have lost someone whom you love and who loved you and whom you care for and this makes them forgetting tougher.