3 Loves In A Person's Life

It is said that you fall in love with three different types of people in your lifetime, and each kind of person you fall in love with is for a different reason in a different period of your life.

Our first love is said to happen when we are at a young age.
For example, old love stories. At time, you are young and don’t know much about love. Besides having feelings, fights, it is the naïve kind of love that you start believing in and starts seeing a future in it, and at the time it doesn’t matter if in your heart feel quite right, because, in our mind, we see that this is what love is supposed to be like. The opinions matters most in this form of relationship and both of the participants will do anything to make it look subtle.

Our second love is said to be the hard love.
It comprises the love that teaches us lessons about who we are, and what we want in a relationship and what love we truly aspire. Unfortunately, this love is not a happy one. This love hurts and brings you pain and suffer. Due to these facts, there is almost drama, and you become trained that it is your fault. You feel guilty for always being around them, even though you know that this is what you need. Yet, instead of giving up on the relationship, you hang on, thinking that one day suddenly everything will change and they will realize how desperately you love. The emotional push, results in forward walk through highs and lows, no matter how bad they are now, to get tingling feeling from those wonderful highs.

Our third love is the love is said to be the love we don’t see coming.
This is the love we never considered in our life before. This is the one that never occurred back in the back of our head; even it was in front of our sight in the past. The third love is the love that comes too easy, and it doesn’t seem possible. You think it won’t last, you are afraid to think that the same thing will happen again as it has happened in the past. At first, you can’t explain the connection. What is it about this person that draws you to them so much? Here we meet someone, and surprisingly it fits right enough and you start to live your way the way that defines you and things start to work out with one another. The efforts you do in this love, you don’t feel like you are the only one pulling the carriage like you felt in the second love. Nobody can ensure your end, not even you. They love you enough to carry you on your bad days and, you love them enough to support them on their rough ones. You don’t feel to the constant need to advertise your happiness. Sometimes, you are, sometimes you are not. But that doesn’t mean that it is the end of relationship. You come together with your happiness and try to solve it. You sit together and you talk, yell, sing what you have and solve whatever comes around. Because that’s what love is, it’s making things work because you love another and want to be together.