Women In Roles

Our society gives a huge area for a woman to be a part of it. Nature on its evolution and discovery, has always marked women as 'beginning of a new creation'. Creation as well as destruction are terms goes side-by-side as we all read in mythology and epic stories. Around the first era, when Goddesses used to figure out their swords and walk along to demolish the demons. Goddesses who gave born to its new ones with power. A woman plays a pivot role in every stages of life for a man, child an old person or another woman. In today's society, somewhere women are being forgotten for their play in the drama of LIFE. They are unrecognized, suppressed and bounded to reside as the only living creature inside the four walls. The actual hunger of a woman is Respect- Identity-Love-Peace. A punch of these with appropriate proportion is hard to fight and difficult to make. We see our mothers, who must had gone through a lot of struggles just to make a big fat family or just to play the prewritten roles of the drama. Life is not less than a motion picture where we are merely acting on it. Bearing the biggest pain to fulfilling hopeless works thats all a woman can do. Giving birth to child and serving food with care all a woman does in her life. Sati pratha to Child marriage all kinds of taboos were just tortured upon them and only women were able to bear it. The pain feels when 208 bones cracks at a time, thats what a mother bears while showing her baby the world and light. God has created such a capacity and patience inside a woman, that tough jobs like this are not a part for a men to play. A woman always wants to make her fame and self identity. Some portions of nation is quite backward regarding this matter. They are being suppressed to dream as well as to work for them.

People with those mentality thinks, a woman belongs to household chores and cooking in front of oven. Is it so ? Well I don't think, she needs a credit to cook and feed her family. She performs all these stuffs with love and care not as she meant to be or as her duty. Sometimes she is treated as an 'unpaid servent', is that justified, and abusing her- threatning- infact physical harm is a daily routine in some households. Does her man, respect her ? loves her? Let her fly and make her own identity? No. Finally no peace is there in her heart and mind. A woman dies everyday in hunger of what she wants.Exceptions are always there, who motivates her to open her arms and embrace good things in life to explore and learn. There should be understanding, respect and dedication. Companionship is not just sharing bed and making children thus staying together. Companionship means to help, let learn, respect, trust and love-care. To fight such battles of life she needs her partner to be her side.

People say-" A successfull man is because of his woman" but actually its a both way concept, " A successfull woman is also because of her man". A woman knows her role to play when-how-where and in which way. Its that she wants little appreciation and love. I think, its not a big deal to provide. Believe in her, she can be a perfect home-maker, working mother or a lovely wife. Little move in mentality and upbringinig in ritualistic concept can make a longway difference.

A small step towards your woman can completly change the tone of family, relationship and society.