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Nostalgia is a very beautiful thing right?It's too good to relive those moments that we once enjoyed and cherish those moments that were happy and we would love to back to it. This is a very general feeling. There's nothing wrong in feeling so because that's what we live life for.

But, many a times we are stuck in it. We only want to be there and never come out. We wanna go back to those olden and golden days. This is where we go wrong. We create a downfall for ourselves. We are always regretting that time is flying, yet there's no improvement. The reason behind this is we don't walk with time. No body can race against it but we can walk with it. Why to live in the past, when it's already over.

I have heard many stories where youngsters shine in their school life but once they enter into college they are lost. They deteriorate day by day. There are lot of factors for it, from peer pressure to personal issues. Most common among it is that they find it difficult to adapt to the new environment and always want to be a school goer again. This affects many, mentally and emotionally.

Irony here is an individual who always wanted to be a grown up now wants to be a child again. Why not accept it and move on? I agree that the old days were good but we can not live in the past and expect the present to be great. Life has to move on.

Then why to long for something that's never gonna come back. Let's make the present beautiful. Accept it with the way it comes and give our best to everything we do. I have already told that past was ours and present is ours.

Parents too go wrong in this many a times. They need to understand that it's not the same time now and you need to change your ideology of parenting because times have changed and the same way in which you were brought up might not work now. The point is we need to accept change.

There's a saying that "Changes are the only constant thing" ,everything will change sooner or later. We need to be ready to accept it and keep on doing whatever we are supposed to. Past is past and can never become present.

Then, why not make the present, the way we want. Because,nothing is impossible and everything could be done if we desire to. Let's make it happen. Invite the present with smile and greet it warmly, because

Nostalgia needs to be beautiful.