Parents Or Lover?

Parents or lover, this becomes a very tough decision sometimes. Some people choose parents over their lover and some people choose lover over their parents. This completely depends sometimes on the situation or sometimes you intentionally hurt someone.

We never see God but we feel the presence of God in our surrounding whenever our parents are with us. Parents are the most supreme responsibility and love of each and every child. No one likes to hurt his or her parents but sometimes without our knowledge, we hurt our parents. They forgive us but can we forget the pain which we give them? No, parents take care of us and they protect us from all problems. Either we are a small child or we are a college-going student, we are completely dependent on our parents.

Love is very important for everyone. An age comes when you need a lover or partner to whom you can share your all talks. You do a lot of genuine things to make your partner happy and you receive the same happiness in return. You always get so much passionate for your lover that you can do anything for maintaining the purity of your love.

Now, when you decide to make your lover as your life partner, sometimes at this moment you leave your partner because you do not want to hurt your parents. But sometimes you prefer to choose your lover and you leave your parents who love you unconditionally and without any requirement.

This becomes very difficult for you to choose whom: Parents or Lover. So, here are one-one factor for both, then you should decide whether you want to choose your parents or lover. So, the following factor-

• Your mother keeps you in her womb for 9 months and your father works hard to give you all the facility of this world. They sacrifice their happiness for your demands and always give you the best of the things. They should be your priority because in the future you will also be in their place. So think what you will feel when your child will leave you?

• If you are loving some person with full purity and take responsibility to not hurt your lover, then you should think about your love.

In both cases, you should always become very conscious because one is your world since your birth till the end time and others will also be going to become your world for your whole life. Make sure to satisfy both and balance their happiness, but if you are unable then never hurt your parents and try to make yourself and your love understand the value of your parents in your life. Your love will surely understand this.