Life Is Full Of “Ifs” And “Buts”

Quite a lot of people have an attitude that involves a lot of “ifs” and “buts”. This kind of attitude often becomes a huge barrier in the path that leads up to success. People who always deal with either an “if” or a “but” are essentially the people who are quite unlikely to be successful in life.

Why is this happening? Experiencing different things gives people an experience. Experience makes a man perfect. Going out and involving themselves in various kinds of activities gives them a lot of confidence and knowledge about various things. Since getting to know something is never a waste, one never knows when their experiences might come useful. Thus, people who are always ready to take risks are more likely to succeed. On the contrary, people who are always stopping themselves by indulging arguments based on ifs and buts, often lose most of the best opportunities in life. These people can’t

experience or know certain chapters which can teach them some very good lessons to move on in life. Without the important experience, these people lack the basic strong foundation which is important for

gaining success.

When a person puts the clause of an “if” or a “but”, they restrict themselves from doing things that should otherwise be done and which they are usually capable of doing. They put them inside a cage where they wait for someone to open it rather than trying to open it by themselves. People should make a sub-conscious effort of turning every “if” and “but” into something more positive. Every time there is a situation where an “if” or a “but” comes into your mind, replace it with an “I should” or “I can”. Paul Meyer said that “Success is the progressive realization of predetermined, worthwhile, personal goals.”Our realization begins only when we start taking steps and begin to do something on our own. People, who sit with one leg resting over another all the time will never realize their potential or goals.

There are no “ifs” and “buts” only “yes” and “no”. “This is the battle that has to be won – no “ifs” no“buts”. Think, Have you ever lost anything just because of a simple “if” or “but”? Do you want to lose even more precious rituals? Should we need “ifs” and “buts” anymore? Are you ready to gain every

single ritual? Let’s walk together.