Parents: Gift Of God❤️

Imagine a place where there are only children with all the facilities, same environment but you don’t have your parents around yourself. Will you able to manage your life on our own? Will you able to survive your whole life without your parents? Most importantly, will we be able to get this precious life without our parents?

We can imagine surviving a day without them; this thing is next to impossible. Everyone love their parents and there is no doubt in this that parents play a most important role in everyone’ life. In families, it is clearly seen as boys are more close and friendly with mother whereas girls are more close to their fathers but does that mean that they have divided their love?

No, whatever the situation is fathers teach us how to become strong and confident and how to present you in this society and mother teaches us the value of emotions, relationships and respecting others.

People often say that they never see god in real but I don’t believe them because our parents are the reflection of god. God can’t remain available for us all the time that’s why he made the process of parenting so that everyone should have someone in their life to whom they can share their happiness and pain and if you have your parents with you, you have got everything you need in this world. Parents are the life giver, caretaker, protector and well-wisher of child.

Parents are the one who teach child the morals, teach them the difference between of right and wrong. They are only people who spend their whole life struggling for us by crushing their own needs, choices and dreams to fulfill their child’s dream, work hard all day and night to make their child successful and independent. They are the only people who celebrate our success before us. They always encourage us and always teach us to believe in ourselves first. They do everything for us without complaining and without demanding anything from us and that’s something which even god can’t do for us.

But what about the children who don’t have parents? Should we call them orphans? Don’t they have anyone who can fulfill their dreams?

No, no, no that’s completely wrong. Don’t ever think in this way that if you don’t have you biological parents, you are an orphan, not at all. The people who give birth to you are not only the people who we can term as our parents. The people who take care of you, work hard to help you in perusing your dreams, do everything what an actual parent do in the absence of your biological parents, those people are also your parents. There is no compulsion in this thing that you must have a blood connection to term them as your parents. If we don’t have our real parents, we still have some people who love us and take care of us in their absence. They can be anyone whether your brother, sister, grandparents, step -mother etc. etc.

Life is tough and you can’t win it if you don’t have parents or someone with you who can take care of you. Parents are the actual role model of our life. They help and teach us to move our directionless life in right direction but when we grow up, we develop our own thoughts and rules and judge people according to ourselves. Sometimes, we feel like they are not understanding and supporting our choices and pressurizing their choices upon us but instead of talking in a rude tone and disrespecting them, we should talk to them and make them understand what we want to do with our life and if that is good enough for you, they will definitely support you. Parents are always right and they’ll never take any wrong decision for you. You have to understand that whatever they are deciding for you is for your own good. Sometimes in anger they use some wrong words or take wrong action for us but their intensions are never wrong. We should not misunderstand their concern as insecurity.

But what are we doing now? Are we giving our parents the same love and respect they deserve?

We all are so busy in our daily life schedule that we have stopped spending time to our parents. In our childhood, we didn’t able to spend a single minute without our parents but now, as we grow up this maturity and adulthood had distanced us from them. Never forgot those sleepless nights which our mothers spend while taking care of us when we were sick. Never forget the hard work and struggle of your father who works whole day without taking leave from their work so that they can fulfil our needs and dreams. We have started giving importance to our work, our friends, our choices but don’t forget the thing that they play the most important role in our success and they are the only people who made us whatever we are today.

Parent’s debt is the debt which we can’t pay even after earning lot of money. You can’t even value parents’ sacrifices and love in terms of money. So, if you genuinely want to do something for them don’t take any wrong decision or do anything which will hurt your parents. Follow their instructions and morals. Love them, respect the, always spend some quality time with them so that they don’t have to crave of your attention. Make good use of their money and become a successful and independent person and you’ll we see the day you get stand on your own feet they will be the first and the happiest person on your success.

Always love your parents because if you failed as a good child of your parents, you’ll never go to become a good parent.

Time and future are very uncertain and unpredictable; you don’t know what will be going to happen in future. That’s why you have to start spending time with them, make good memories so that you won’t feel bad for yourself that you don’t able to make the good use of the time you have with them. At last whatever and however they are, they are still our parents and we should respect them and try our best to make your parents happy.