Be Yourself : Travel Alone

“Nobody can discover the world for somebody else. Only when we discover it for ourselves does it become common ground and a common bond and we cease to be alone.”

Some people shy away from travelling alone, a few embrace it. So, what is it makes an attractive option? What are the advantages of going it alone?

Well first things first, travelling solo can be very liberating. The itinerary you set and all the decisions you make are yours and yours alone. You don't need to worry about any other person or group. In other words, there's no need to compromise, there's no arguments, and no need to second - guess what other people want or need. Actually, you can be completely selfish.

Travelling alone can be a great confidence builder. Yes, at times it can feel a bit lonely, but that is just one of many problems you will have to solve yourself, along with making your own arrangements, and setting your own goals.

Have you noticed that when you are on your own, people are more willing to start a conversation with you? You are more likely to take the initiative as well, and before you know it, up pops and invitation for a meal, a side trip, a stay at someone's home. From some odd reasons people try to keep a distance between from couples and groups, probably because there seems to be self contained and exclusive. Whereas the lone traveller looks ready to connect with their fellow human beings, and more likely to engage in pleasant conversations and simple exhanges about their travels. Putting it simply, lone travellers look interesting.

Thomas Jefferson once said: “One travels more usefully when alone because he reflects more,” and it’s true: you have much more time to contemplate things. A day long visit to one museum? No problem. A long hike on a trail frought with danger? Not an issue. You don’t have to deal with someone else’s mood swings, —nor they with yours.

Here are two more exciting reasons you should consider travelling solo: you will find yourself learning languages faster when you don't have someone else talking to you in your own language at the time. It's funny, but we interact, are FORCED to interact much more frequently when we travel alone in a country that doesn't speak our native tongue.

If that doesn't convince you, there is a chance for adventure and even romance. When you are on your own, you are you are free to meet someone who might turn to be very important in your life.

The most important factor to consider your decision to make a trip alone is your own sense of independence. If you find that you have a little tolerance for the idiosyncracies of others, or you don't get how group dynamics work, you might be happier travelling alone.

Of course, there may be things holding you back : Fears of the unknown, or maybe you have a spouse, relative, or friend who may be upset by your decision to take off yourself, you will have to convince them of the value of travelling alone and allay any fear they might have,but with technology at our fingertips, you can include them in the adventure.

You have to answer your own inner wanderer, to pick up your courage and let your heart lead the way to a new adventure.

Be it near or far—you can go it alone!